sluts vs girlfriend material

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  1. Flemmy Stardust

    Flemmy Stardust King of Lea

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    Where are you at now, as far as what you're looking for? Would you do the same as i did tonight?

    I moved to Hoboken yesterday, which is literally the last exit in NJ before the Lincoln Tunnel into Manhattan. It's awesome. I have a bunch of friends here, and it's one of the biggest bar scenes in north Jersey. My move-in just so happened to coincide with my friend's annual bar crawl.

    Second bar we're at, the girl whose birthday it was comes up to me and tells me her friend thinks I'm cute and wants to be introduced, so i go up and talk to her. She's cool, and very cute. Has a good head on her shoulders, a solid career, etc. Initial conversation goes over well enough, but then we go to the next bar.

    At this bar, i put myself in situations to continue getting to know her, but she's shy or I'm shy...whatever it is, we're not re-engaging the way i had hoped. Enter Slut. Slut is way into me immediately. All over me. Hot and sexy as fuck, but young and I'm gonna guess there's nothing there outside of that.

    Girlfriend Material is in my periphery, but i can't resist Slut grabbing at my junk and being so goddamn hot. Long story short, i spend the next half hour making out with Slut right in front of Girlfriend Material. Eventually i have to part ways to continue bar crawl, but i get her number, etc. Rest of the evening I'm getting shit from birthday girl for being a jerk to Girlfriend Material.

    Can't imagine Girlfriend Material thinks much of me now, but I'm ok with my decision. No pressure and i i can bang Slut out without much work. On the other hand, that's probably as far as I'd want it to go.

    What would you prefer at whatever stage of your life that you're in?



    Cliffs: i chose the slut.
     
  2. Ghost in the Shell

    Ghost in the Shell DEUS EX MACHINA Platinum Member

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    You should stop using "slut" altogether. It ain't gonna get you nowhere
     
  3. Bukowski82

    Bukowski82 Buckle up belt

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    That's where you'd be wrong... She was probably rustled as hell and wants you even more, now.

    Sounds like a great night, though. You made the right choice, imo. But I'm pretty jaded and don't have relationships. It's really all about what you want. That night, slut was what you wanted... Maybe next time it will differ. Just enjoy yourself and never second guess those type of decisions.
     
  4. Flemmy Stardust

    Flemmy Stardust King of Lea

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    She's poon OnDemand.
     
  5. Nonsense

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    Do you consider the two categories mutually exclusive? Let's Venn diagram this shit.
     
  6. DaleBoca

    DaleBoca Silver Belt

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    This is very true. Anytime you go out with a girlfriends, and you are hanging out with them and having a good time, girls will look at you far more, than if you are with your buddies. Girls are known to the biggest haters on the planet.
     
  7. Ghost in the Shell

    Ghost in the Shell DEUS EX MACHINA Platinum Member

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    Nah son. No reason why the female should suffer due to having intercourse.

    :cool:
     
  8. Bukowski82

    Bukowski82 Buckle up belt

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    lol, you're the best.
     
  9. Flemmy Stardust

    Flemmy Stardust King of Lea

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    I want neither, which is what makes it easy. I want another girl who lives here.

    Which, in all fairness, may have been what made me make that choice. I'm holding out hope.
     
  10. carebear**

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    Damn Flemmy you almost got raped. I like that. I like that a lot.
     
  11. heavyarms21

    heavyarms21 Ryozanpaku Belt

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    I'm going to assume you are young , I say fuck it you are me 6 years ago before I met the woman who would be my wife
     
  12. GrindingANARCHY

    GrindingANARCHY Banned Banned

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    Life is easier when it's just about sex and not about relationships.
     
  13. Flemmy Stardust

    Flemmy Stardust King of Lea

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    Yes. That's the crux of the thread.
     
  14. Count Zero

    Count Zero Twisting Nether

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    Right now I'm looking to have a couple meaningless flings before I start the search for Ms. Right
     
  15. Flemmy Stardust

    Flemmy Stardust King of Lea

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    Not young, just irresistible.. I'm 30. Girlfriend Material was 32, Slut was 24.

    Gal i really want is 28.

    But that's part of the point, how old are y'all and what are you looking for at that age?
     
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    What's the deal with this other girl... She already with someone?

    And did you reciprocate all the interest of the GF material one at the bar? The fizzle at the next bar may have come if she thought you were too eager to accept her advances. I know girls that will do that shit to guys, and if the guy responds too favorably, his value to them drops and there goes his shot.
     
  17. GrindingANARCHY

    GrindingANARCHY Banned Banned

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    Beware of the crazy slut who lays out her snatch to
    to become the girlfriend. Some dudes are way too desperate for sex, they make irrational decisions such as turning a hoe into a house wife. Never wife the Sluts.
     
  18. heavyarms21

    heavyarms21 Ryozanpaku Belt

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    Damn I found mine fairly young. I was 23 when I settled down. Wife is the same age as me , we are about to be 28
     
  19. MSK1010

    MSK1010 Far too Young and Clever

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    You didnt even try for a threesome?
     
  20. Joe Wong

    Joe Wong Gold Belt Banned

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    lol probably the best poster on sherdog. Youre the best, nonsense.
     

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