Where are you at now, as far as what you're looking for? Would you do the same as i did tonight? I moved to Hoboken yesterday, which is literally the last exit in NJ before the Lincoln Tunnel into Manhattan. It's awesome. I have a bunch of friends here, and it's one of the biggest bar scenes in north Jersey. My move-in just so happened to coincide with my friend's annual bar crawl. Second bar we're at, the girl whose birthday it was comes up to me and tells me her friend thinks I'm cute and wants to be introduced, so i go up and talk to her. She's cool, and very cute. Has a good head on her shoulders, a solid career, etc. Initial conversation goes over well enough, but then we go to the next bar. At this bar, i put myself in situations to continue getting to know her, but she's shy or I'm shy...whatever it is, we're not re-engaging the way i had hoped. Enter Slut. Slut is way into me immediately. All over me. Hot and sexy as fuck, but young and I'm gonna guess there's nothing there outside of that. Girlfriend Material is in my periphery, but i can't resist Slut grabbing at my junk and being so goddamn hot. Long story short, i spend the next half hour making out with Slut right in front of Girlfriend Material. Eventually i have to part ways to continue bar crawl, but i get her number, etc. Rest of the evening I'm getting shit from birthday girl for being a jerk to Girlfriend Material. Can't imagine Girlfriend Material thinks much of me now, but I'm ok with my decision. No pressure and i i can bang Slut out without much work. On the other hand, that's probably as far as I'd want it to go. What would you prefer at whatever stage of your life that you're in? Cliffs: i chose the slut.