@Tufts @Cubo de Sangre
Alright. I'm ending the system-discussion right now.
It's been less than 24 hours. But it's clear that you're not going to win a majority. Your arguments aren't marshalling the membership. The only one who kind of agrees to your proposal is Yotsuya (and maybe FrontNakedChoke).
More importantly, this discussion has birthed a bunch of drama and negative-vibes that has made members want to leave the club. That is exactly the thing a club is
NOT supposed to do.
If a club has reached that stage, then it has already failed. So I want no more of it. Further discussion is only going to amplify that negative impression.
Let me be blunt. I need you to accept this state-of-affair. Or I must ask you to leave. I can't have internet drama turning people off the club. If you truly wish, then you can always start your own SMC that follow different regulations.
Let me be blunt. I've made a point of being my own person since I joined this club. Why is this message being directed to me? Concerns were brought up about participation. I threw in my two cents. I ribbed a couple of people in a funny and good natured way (IMHO).
Are you upset over my karma gif over the Cubo and Jei exchange? You got mad at Cubo for saying; nah, but were ok with Jei saying it first. I just thought it was funny that Jei's words came back at him. There were no evil or mean intentions on my part. I feel like you are defending your friend, while ignoring that he said it first, and then giving us shit for reacting to it.
I also don't think making suggestions for improvement is a negative act.
I wasn't marshaling anyone. I felt that the club was in decline and threw some suggestions out there. This message, however, feels threatening, negative and inappropriate to me. Yes, the person who brought up the desire to make changes is my husband, but my agreement with him has nothing to do with our marital status. So I ask again, why does this message include me? The way to handle it would have been to respond to
@Cubo de Sangre and at the most ask me if I want to stay. The most I said is I was considering leaving before identifying why I think we have been in decline and offering up suggestions. I don't feel that anything was posted that would warrant people leaving until just now. It is ridiculous that a group of adults can't handle discussing a change of rules.
Now I definitely feel like you want me to leave. So I guess I'm experiencing that which you said you cannot allow to happen, internet drama turning people off of the club.
This message is negative and it is direct response to the tone and message of your post. I will decide whether I will stay or I will leave unless you decide to kick me out because of this reply.
And so its clear, I understand your ruling and this is the last I have to say unless you continue to engage or choose to kick me out. I plan to move forward the way everyone else is.