Not directly related to grappling but I thought it was worth sharing:
nice.
Anyway, he still has a good point but I think the idea of success is tailored to each individual. He used an example of a man wanting to be rich, but being rich is only one person's interpretation of success.
I think the overall message is that if you want to attain success in whatever it is you do, you have to give it everything you have and that the only thing stopping you is you.
CB52 I thought the same thing you did. I'm sure as grapplers, many of us are into healthy habits such as having a relatively good diet and getting good sleep. The part about him saying success is more important than sleep was a little much, but then at the same time I do realize he is addressing college students. I think the typical college student would rather sleep than do whatever it is they're supposed to be doing.
Anyway, he still has a good point but I think the idea of success is tailored to each individual. He used an example of a man wanting to be rich, but being rich is only one person's interpretation of success.
I think the overall message is that if you want to attain success in whatever it is you do, you have to give it everything you have and that the only thing stopping you is you.
The message is very true. The problem is that a lot of people end up chasing false goals and ultimately discover that after achieving them, the victory is hollow.
I saw an article about a week ago specifically written for fighters. The main message was that if you want to be a champion fighter, you have to "not suck at life." I had to laugh because this is so false it's not even funny.
There are tons and tons of stories of champions ultimately ending up unhappy and alone. For just one example, take a look at Mike Tyson today. He had an amazing boxing career, but the rest of his life is pretty much wrecked by any reasonable standard. You can pick any number of other champions in different disciplines to see the same sort of pattern.
The truth is that you will probably succeed to a greater degree than you ever imagined if you fully dedicate yourself to a goal 100%. However, be careful in your choice of goals or else you just might find yourself sad and alone after all of the sacrifices you had to make in order to achieve your hollow goal.
The day to day grind is the real challenge!
After tournaments do you feel deflated? Sometimes there is such an emotional build up before the tournament that afterwards I feel kinda empty inside. Even if I win, I ask myself, "Is this it?" "Is this what I was working for?"
I talk to my students about competing and I will show them my medals. But, I want them to know that the medal itself is mostly insignificant. Someone can come in here and steal it, but nobody can take away the hard work and effort it took to achieve it. The day to day grind is the real challenge!
This is basically just another elongated feel-good bumper sticker that's been reposted on facebook too many damn times.
"You need to want to be successful as much as you want to breathe."
Okay!
There are a few things that get me motivated, I think I can add those videos to them. I think it helps motivate you when you feel like taking a rest from drilling, rolling, exercising etc. There are always going to be times where you make excuses for yourself not to roll.
This quote from Teddy is the one that motivates me most.