- Joined
- Nov 16, 2013
- Messages
- 4,897
- Reaction score
- 0
Divorce has become so common that people don't feel the shame that being a divorcee used to bring. Now it's like something everyone goes through at some point.
There's also the fact that the legal system makes the whole process so easy. Unless you get some old fashioned judge, a couple can probably get a divorce granted by saying they don't get along.
Marriage is nothing but a joke piece of paper and a couple pieces of jewelry.
"There's also the fact that the legal system makes the whole process so lucrative."
Changed one word for accuracy.
the entire system of legal divorce is a cash cow sham and the Law Society is entirely to blame.
One third of families wealth is transferred to the lawyers thru divorce and that hurts families while enriching lawyers and they have no reason to try and diminish those numbers despite the fact it could be done easily. You won't have politicians or judges reform the system as they too are dominated by lawyers.
There simply is no reason for Divorce to be part of the adversarial system at the onset, that creates such animosity leading to larger legal bills. Almost all law judgements are based on legal precedent. There is rarely anything new in divorce that prior precedent could not address. So instead of letting each and every couple fight it out like their cases are unique and new while lawyers argue and judges sit, the system should require each couple first sit with a court ordered mediator who will review precedent and put forth a judgement.
Now the lawyers will say 'we cannot deny people their right to court'. Fine, allow either party then with mediated judgement in hand the right to ignore it and still pursue their day in court but make it known that if the judge sides with the mediator and says it was fair, then the one who brought it to court must pay 100% of the costs for both side out of their settlement.
this system would take a ton of the animosity out of the fight between couples making it easier for them to work together post divorce, and it would leave more of their money for them to rebuild. But it would cut lawyers incomes and that is why it is not forced.
Last edited: