International Russian Orthodox Church Offers Escape For Masculinity-Obsessed American Conservatives

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"A lot of people ask me: 'Father Moses, how can I increase my manliness to absurd levels?'"
In a YouTube video, external, a priest is championing a form of virile, unapologetic masculinity.
Skinny jeans, crossing your legs, using an iron, shaping your eyebrows, and even eating soup are among the things he derides as too feminine.
There are other videos of Father Moses McPherson - a powerfully built father of five - weightlifting to the sound of heavy metal.
He was raised a Protestant and once worked as a roofer, but now serves as a priest in the Russian Orthodox Church Outside Russia (ROCOR) in Georgetown, Texas, an offshoot of the mother church in Moscow.
ROCOR, a global network with headquarters in New York, has recently been expanding across parts of the US - mainly as a result of people converting from other faiths.
In the last six months, Father Moses has prepared 75 new followers for baptism in his church of the Mother of God, just north of Austin.
"When my wife and I converted 20 years ago we used to call Orthodoxy the best-kept secret, because people just didn't know what it was," he says.
"But in the past year-and-a-half our congregation has tripled in size."
During the Sunday liturgy at Father Moses's church, I am struck by the number of men in their twenties and thirties praying and crossing themselves at the back of the nave, and how this religion - with traditions dating back to the 4th century AD - seems to attract young men uneasy with life in modern America.
Software engineer Theodore tells me he had a dream job and a wife he adored, but he felt empty inside, as if there was a hole in his heart. He believes society has been "very harsh" on men and is constantly telling them they are in the wrong. He complains that men are criticised for wanting to be the breadwinner and support a stay-at-home wife.
"We are told that's a very toxic relationship nowadays," Theodore says. "That's not how it should be."
Almost all the converts I meet have opted to home-school their offspring, partly because they believe women should prioritise their families rather than their careers.
Father John Whiteford, an archpriest in the ROCOR from Spring, north of Houston, says home-schooling ensures a religious education and is "a way of protecting your children", while avoiding any talk about "transgenderism, or the 57 genders of the month or whatever".
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Compared to the millions of worshippers in America's evangelical megachurches, the numbers of Christian Orthodox are tiny - only about one percent of the population. That includes Eastern Orthodoxy, as practised across Russia, Ukraine, eastern Europe and Greece, and the Oriental Orthodox from the Middle East and Africa.
Founded by priests and clergy fleeing the Russian Revolution in 1917, ROCOR is seen by many as the most conservative Orthodox jurisdiction in the US. Yet this small religious community is a vocal one, and what's unfolding within it mirrors broader political shifts, especially following President Donald Trump's dramatic pivot toward Moscow.
The true increase in the number of converts is hard to quantify, but data from the Pew Research Centre, external suggests Orthodox Christians are 64% male, up from 46% in 2007.
A smaller study, external of 773 converts appears to back the trend. Most recent newcomers are men, and many say the pandemic pushed them to seek a new faith. That survey is from the Orthodox Church in America, external (OCA), which was established by Russian monks in Alaska in the late 18th Century and now has more than 700 parishes, missions, communities, monasteries, and institutions in the US, Canada and Mexico which identify as Russian Orthodox.
Professor Scott Kenworthy, who studies the history and thought of Eastern Orthodox Christianity - particularly in modern Russia - says his OCA parish in Cincinnati "is absolutely bursting at the seams".
He's attended the same church for 24 years and says congregation numbers remained steady until the Covid lockdown. Since then, there has been constant flow of new inquirers and people preparing to be baptised, known as catechumens.
"This is not just a phenomenon of my own parish, or a few places in Texas," Prof Kenworthy says, "it is definitely something broader."
The digital space is key in this wave of new converts. Father Moses has a big following online - when he shares a picture of a positive pregnancy test, external on his Instagram feed he gets 6,000 likes for announcing the arrival of his sixth child.
But there are dozens of other podcasts and videos presented by Orthodox clergy and an army of followers - mainly male.
Father Moses tells his congregation there are two ways of serving God - being a monk or a nun, or getting married. Those who take the second path should avoid contraception and have as many children as possible.
"Show me one saint in the history of the Church who ever blessed any kind of birth control," Father Moses says. As for masturbation - or what the church calls self-abuse - the priest condemns it as "pathetic and unmanly".
Father Moses says Orthodoxy is "not masculine, it is just normal", while "in the West everything has become very feminised". Some Protestant churches, he believes, mainly cater for women.
"I don't want to go to services that feel like a Taylor Swift concert," Father Moses says. "If you look at the language of the 'worship music', it's all emotion - that's not men."
Elissa Bjeletich Davis, a former Protestant who now belongs to the Greek Orthodox Church in Austin, is a Sunday school teacher and has her own podcast, external. She says many converts belong to "the anti-woke crowd" and sometimes have strange ideas about their new faith - especially those in the Russian Church.
"They see it as a military, rigid, disciplinary, masculine, authoritarian religion," Elissa says. "It's kind of funny. It's almost as if the old American Puritans and their craziness is resurfacing."
Buck Johnson has worked as a firefighter for 25 years and hosts the Counterflow podcast, external.
He says he was initially scared to enter his local Russian Orthodox Church as he "looks different, covered in tattoos", but tells me he was welcomed with open arms. He was also impressed the church stayed open throughout the Covid lockdown.
Sitting on a couch in front of two huge TV screens at his home in Lockhart, he says his newfound faith is changing his view of the world.
"Negative American views on Russia are what worry me," Buck says. He tells me the mainstream, "legacy" media presents a distorted picture of the invasion of Ukraine.
"I think there's a holdover from the boomer generation here in America that lived through the Cold War," Buck says, "and I don't quite grasp why - but they say Russia's bad."
The head of the Russian Church in Moscow, Patriarch Kirill, has doggedly backed the invasion of Ukraine, calling it a Holy War, and expressing little compassion for its victims. When I ask Archpriest Father John Whiteford about Russia's top cleric, who many see as a warmonger, he assures me the Patriarch's words have been distorted.
Footage and photographs of Putin quoting Bible verses, holding candles during services in Moscow's Cathedral of Christ the Saviour and stripping down to his swim trunks to plunge into icy water at Epiphany, seem to have struck a chord. Some - in America and other countries - see Russia as the last bastion of true Christianity.
Nearly a decade ago, another Orthodox convert turned priest from Texas, Father Joseph Gleason, moved from America to Borisoglebskiy, a village four hours' drive north of Moscow, with his wife and eight children.
"Russia does not have homosexual marriage, it does not have civil unions, it is a place where you can home-school your kids and - of course - I love the thousand-year history of Orthodox Christianity here," he told a Russian video host.
This wispy-bearded Texan is in the vanguard of a movement urging conservatives to relocate to Russia. Last August, Putin introduced fast-track shared values visa, external for those fleeing Western liberalism.
Back in Texas, Buck tells me he and his fellow converts are turning their backs on instant gratification and American consumerism.
"We're thinking of things long term," Buck says, "like traditions, love for your family, love for you community, love for neighbours.
"I think that orthodoxy fits us well - and especially in Texas."

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There's an old English football chant that might sum up the situation:

 
He complains that men are criticised for wanting to be the breadwinner and support a stay-at-home wife.
Literally no one is doing this.
it's all emotion - that's not men."
God designed us to have a complex emotional matrix that responds to outside stimuli. It can make you weep with love and joy, fueled with anger to achieve beyond your means, feel deeply as you care for and look over those you hold dear… but we here in the goof ball church don’t want men doing any of those things.”
The head of the Russian Church in Moscow, Patriarch Kirill, has doggedly backed the invasion of Ukraine, calling it a Holy War, and expressing little compassion for its victims
Christ would love that.
This wispy-bearded Texan
Not very manly, imo.
 
Literally no one is doing this.

God designed us to have a complex emotional matrix that responds to outside stimuli. It can make you weep with love and joy, fueled with anger to achieve beyond your means, feel deeply as you care for and look over those you hold dear… but we here in the goof ball church don’t want men doing any of those things.”

Christ would love that.

Not very manly, imo.
Literally agree with all your points except that no one is doing this.
 
Do you mean like in a passive or active way?

People are actually and outright criticizing men for wanting to be the breadwinner?
I know people criticize it. Doesn't mean it's not happening, nor does it mean it's a bad thing. In this day and age people criticizing usually means you're not doing a bad thing
 
Who is getting upset at men for wanting to earn enough money that their partner does not have to work? I have not seen nor heard that anywhere.
Maybe I misread. I thought you meant who is trying to do this for their wife to stay at home. Cheers bud. Disagreement retracted
 
Maybe I misread. I thought you meant who is trying to do this for their wife to stay at home. Cheers bud. Disagreement retracted
I don’t think there is a lefty out there that wouldn’t agree that having a parent at home with the kids full-time is not only great for the kids, it is pretty fucking awesome for that parent.

I would love for my wife to earn enough money that all I had to do was stay home and hang out with my kid. Laundry and cleaning the house? Easy. A weekly grocery budget so I can cook all sorts of cool shit for dinner every night? That would be amazing. Oh no, the wife needs a smart cocktail and a foot rub after work? Baby I got you. Being a stay at home spouse is the dream.
 
I don’t think there is a lefty out there that wouldn’t agree that having a parent at home with the kids full-time is not only great for the kids, it is pretty fucking awesome for that parent.

I would love for my wife to earn enough money that all I had to do was stay home and hang out with my kid. Laundry and cleaning the house? Easy. A weekly grocery budget so I can cook all sorts of cool shit for dinner every night? That would be amazing. Oh no, the wife needs a smart cocktail and a foot rub after work? Baby I got you. Being a stay at home spouse is the dream.
It is. So much is lost these days just trying to have all the toys and amidst all the divorce. The children definitely benefit
 
It is. So much is lost these days just trying to have all the toys and amidst all the divorce. The children definitely benefit
My kid turns 13 today. Last year I got her a handful of cookbooks it’s been so much fun picking recipes and teaching her how to cook each week. We’ve never been a big, “stuff “family but love having experiences together instead
 
My kid turns 13 today. Last year I got her a handful of cookbooks it’s been so much fun picking recipes and teaching her how to cook each week. We’ve never been a big, “stuff “family but love having experiences together instead
Those are the things they will remember. It's not all the toys. It's the experiences that matter in this life and what we remember from our own parents. Just spending time with us and making them feel important. Well done. I'm sure she feels special and happy birthday to her. She's a beautiful girl. I'm teaching my older boys to cook now. They're still young but I want them to be able to give this to someone else when they are an adult
 
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Who is getting upset at men for wanting to earn enough money that their partner does not have to work? I have not seen nor heard that anywhere.
They have for like 40 years. This is like 25 years ago, and you can check back in the Harrison Butker thread from just last year with lefties outraged at someone saying "many of you will go on to have great careers, and many of you are also looking forward to having families and raising children".

 
being bredwinner is man thing but if is attached to piuos wife and not some compaliner who finds eveything wrong with you
 
Young males are interested in masculinity. Wow I had no idea

extra, extra read all about it.
 
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