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I would have guessed that this would still be true anywhere there's a significant skills gap e.g,. low blues vs. black belts...that if both were going 100% (and roughly the same size), it would just be a tap-fest with not much opportunity for learning on either side. But obviously I have no idea, so I could be wrong.
When I roll with my instructor he doesnt exactly go balls to the wall but he IS constantly working for subs...and when he gets them he takes them. But I have NOOOOO problem with that! I want to know that higher level of skill, I wnat to FEEL the pressure of a GOOD TIGHT submission, I want to see the seet ups, I want to speed etc.
So even though I am the one being tapped I am learning offense too...from watching what HE does to me! Then when I roll with lesser skilled guys I do it to them and I hope it helps them the same way....in fact Im sure it does bc they get a lot better. I am a 4 stripe white belt and I beleive that I am above my skill level (not leaps and bounds above but slightly better than the avg high white) and I attribute that to rolling with the few higher belts in my school (bc the school is new) and getting my ass kicked but then also rolling with newer guys and beating them.
I guess what we have learned thru this discussion is that everyone trains a lil differently and there isnt only ONE way to learn. Tough love works and so does being nurtured!