As if she knew her kid wouldn't look. Is it okay to take a quick sip of whiskey when your playing with your kid when he is not looking. Nah, I don't have problem, it's just a quick sip.
Being a good role model for your kid is not just sonething to be dismissed as a "problem". Raising kids is serious business
I don't know why you are always trying to downplay all and every criticism on SD. I get that a lot of people make a fuss about unimportant things. But raising kids and healthy self esteem are pretty important subjects.
BTW, I'm not saying she is a bad person. Like I said when this whole thing started, I empathize with her because of the position she is in and how society has created that position.