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The issue is most people dont want to admit there is a culture problem. Becuase then they must blame the people there not just the affects of slavery and bad schooling. Plus how do you change an entire culture? How do you get the idea back in kids heads that school is cool, selling drugs is not. Getting a degree is cool, having a facebook pic of you showing your ass is not. Keeping you legs closed or at least sticking around to raise the child is cool, fuckin and leavin is not. I dont want to hear that they need somethign to look forward to to get better. Maybe things will start to get better if they dont have a kid before graduation? Or maybe there might be jobs for them if they focus on school.
Of course none of this really matters if the parents aren't 100% behind them and pushing them. Of course you need at least one parent around to do that. Can't have the daddy gone and they momma either working all the time or out at the club. Until there is a fine/penalty/etc for being a shitty parent, a lot of this stuff won't change. It's not against the law to be a shitty parent.
And thats the sad parent that a lot of liberals dont want to admit to, what if things have gotten so bad and so many excuses made that there is never any real change? We've had 50 years of dem controlled inner cities and things are still shitty. I know there is still alot to recover from slavery, jim crowe, red lining, etc, but things were not this bad during the 40-to ealry 60s. Graduation rate and wedlock rate was close between the races.
I'm sorry to say but the parents of these children are a write off. The state needs to step in and solve this issue. The children need to be reached through schooling. Nice, safe schools with bright colours and happy, well paid teachers that spend all day, everyday teaching the children how wrong "gangsta" is.
There needs to be all kinds of after school activities and weekend activities as well. The kids need to be away from their homes and bad influences as much as possible.
There needs to be tremendous investment into the surrounding areas as well, the entire neighborhood needs to be cleaned up. More and more cops on the streets, a constant presence, stop and frisk and serious punishment for offenders.
This needs to happen for an entire generation. It would be a huge, huge investment but I'd rather see the money spent there than on the military.
Proper drug rehabilitation centers need to be provided as well. Offenders need to be re-educated. The teaching needs to be so thorough and consistent that it is essentially brain washing.
The "urban" societies are very similar in many of the countries I've been. I still don't believe it's racial,i think it's cultural. Poor people have nothing better to live for. They need to be shown that life can be good.