True conviction doesn't necessarily mean you have to be willing to die for what your objective.
It means acquiring through innovation and labor, the means to achieve your objective through the most efficient means possible.
If you discourage innovation in favor of single-minded courage, then you might have to turn your child into a human smart bomb to go into a marketplace to courageously blow up innocent people in the name of your objective.
If you favor innovation over blinkered courage, then you send your child to schools where he acquires the knowledge to help build guided rockets to crater the cultural snakepit from which a human smart bomb would emerge.
Which is why the west can afford to be a bit soft around the middle when fighting their enemies. Courage gets beta-maxed and reduced to smoking ruin when you brings a knife to a JDAM fight.
In my half-drunk view, (which is admittedly biased and painted in bitter bitter colors by the latest atrocity of the brave brave souls who massacred defenseless villagers, in the land of my juju-slinging ancestors, and the womb of humanity,) the difference lies in the cultural mindset which shapes the tale of the tape between the two combatants in this main event.
I mean, the west has yet to take the gloves off in this rumble. See what happens if, lets say a sacred secular institution in the West, like the super bowl, gets bombed in suicide attack by courageous Salafist's human smart bombs.
The attackers origins are traced back to Saudi Arabia.
The shock, the grief at the loss of lives, the destruction of a celebrated cultural edifice (even my ex-wife who is Balkan, and doesnt even know the rules of the game would watch it with me) death of people, and the MONEY lost through gambling and sports revenue would be huge.
The sleeping giant that is United States, now sporting a bit of a belly, and wearing pajamas at three pm, would once again be awakened, and pissed off about it too:
"Bomb the place my sacred profit? Sheeeit, well, then I guess the legacy of your prophet will be a mushroom cloud listing over the giant hole in the earth where Mecca used to be, with naught but the pages of burnt korans spiraling like dead leaves amid the ceaseless rain of fallout ash. There may also be the lingering death-incense of burnt camel, and if you listen real real close you just might hear the fading echoes of the unfulfilled prayers of the dead as even their souls could not survive the atomic heat of my innovation...all this will be a fitting monument to your courage dead....and I didnt even need to get off the couch to do bust dat shit Maw-faakaaaa!"
This was amusing, and basically correct. The USA basically plays with these engagements. Its certainly not fought as a war.
Closest we got to that was the initial invasion of Afghanistan, and we pushed the Taliban's shit in real fast.
The raw firepower we bring to the table is hard to wrap your head around. Not sure what it would take to get a response like that though. Superbowl might do it.