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DID SHE SWALLOW WHEN SHE GAVE YOU A BJ?!!!!!!!
If you read the post I admitted that I haven't had many gf's... and that I'm lost about this situationIt shows that you haven't had many gfs.
How is it weird that after a nice night she holds on to your arm? Thats pretty normal.
Has she been single for long? Sounds like you really impressed her, at the beginning.
Personally i'd rather see a new lover than go visit a mate, tbh.
You know the best thing to do when you're with someone new or someone you've been with for a while? Talk and be honest.
You are allowed to talk to a woman if you're confused or concerned about anything she says or does. What's the alternative to not talking? Maybe getting the wrong end of the stick or getting pissed off when there isn't really a reason to?
You should be grateful you've met someone.
Females are not an alien species, despite what you may read on this forum at times.
When I said I was going to read the thread, well that was a lie.He said he already smashed, why tempt fate?
No. why you think I didn't click "like" when you asked the first timeDID SHE SWALLOW WHEN SHE GAVE YOU A BJ?!!!!!!!
No. why you think I didn't click "like" when you asked the first time
I thought about asking her if she'd be interested in keeping it as "fwb" type relationship... so far this is the best scenario I can think of me getting what I want and need (sex) from her without feeling guilty, but I don't think this is what she wants and maybe will agree to it having an agenda on her mind.She's mental, and you don't have the skills to tame her, maybe no one would.
Do not commit further, just have some fun and let her know you're not looking for a real serious relationship but that if she wants to keep it low key your down.
There's a certain amount of crazy you're willing to put up with, only you can know what that is. If you're feeling this way at square 1 it's a bad sign.
That's my best advice.
Thanks for giving us cliffs. I was really interested until I realize he was posting a novelShe's crazy. Sorry.
I've dealt with this. The freaking out because you didn't text back right away and thinking you need to spend all your free time with her when you barely know each other. It won't get better.
What do you mean by "train" her? As I'd rather not have some zombie woman by my side who can't think for herselfyou gotta stop her emotions w logic...
if you keep letting her get away w getting emotional it will just get worse. you have to train her...sounds like she never been trained. those first times you felt that shit in your gut but didnt check her bs you fucked up.
either get rid of her or start training her...she is miserable without a strong man to tell her to stfu.
it will never end just go away for a while
Yea the thoughts came that it was just me overreacting to this situation and maybe this is normal and nothing more to it... and you say you've experienced this47 year old experienced guy typing here:
stick with her, just tell her to go easy with the smothering behavior cuz that sends guys running. u like her, u r attracted to her, she sounds mostly good. youll never find a 100% perfect woman, this 1 is good enough. especially since u dont have a long list of alternative ladies. good luck. dont impregnate her.