be on the autism spectrum? She absolutely hates personal interaction. She seems awkward in a lot of social situations. She has not reacted well to things going her way. Her first reaction to something new is hostility. She is very good and focused at one thing. She did not do well in school and was unfocused. It seems she shows a lot of signs. I know we don't think about women usually when we talk about autism or aspergers, but I honestly think Ronda may on the spectrum.