So i started BJJ about 2 months ago and i have to ways to describe it. 1st of , its one of the best decisions i've ever done in my life. the 2nd is OWNEGE. so i've been attending class 4 times a week so far. i know it will take time. ive been working alot on my shrimping, and trying to survive and understanding the fundamentals . however, i have no technique , but i TRY not to use any strength and cheat. im not the biggest dude, iam 5"8 at 170 lb. ive lost weight so far, but im completely getting dominated. its a humbling experience. everyone is helpful at my school. so i started wondering the other day. am i being to nice, because i feel like " man i should have just bodied my way out of this situation". but than again i've been told not to rely on strength because in the long run its not what its about. so if you guys can give me some advice on that and any other thing related to what you remember when you 1st started it be great.