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I had a bit of an epiphany today. Cut a long story short, I had a nightmarish journey to work and ended up being late to a meeting.
I spent the morning telling one of my co-workers about what happened, but he just wasn’t listening at all ... “yeah, yeah, oh ... I get that ... oh...”
I started realising that complaining about things in any form is feminine behaviour and makes you feel like less of a man ... to be honest, upon reflection, I felt like a whiny bitch.
It reminded me of that maxim, “never complain, never explain”.
My boss later asked me why I was late, I kept it real brief and said sorry. Left it at that.
But, yeah. Never complain and never explain.
I need to be sure to catch myself next time I feel the urge to vent.
I spent the morning telling one of my co-workers about what happened, but he just wasn’t listening at all ... “yeah, yeah, oh ... I get that ... oh...”
I started realising that complaining about things in any form is feminine behaviour and makes you feel like less of a man ... to be honest, upon reflection, I felt like a whiny bitch.
It reminded me of that maxim, “never complain, never explain”.
My boss later asked me why I was late, I kept it real brief and said sorry. Left it at that.
But, yeah. Never complain and never explain.
I need to be sure to catch myself next time I feel the urge to vent.