Sorry guys but I'm kind of clueless how to go forward at this point. I've only known this girl for like a month but we get along really well and she is nice and really touchy with me especially when we go drinking. I feel like I'm friendzoned but it's really confusing because she's hot and cold and it changes day to day without any real pattern...as in sometimes she is standoffish and other times she's playful. This last weekend we went to a club in Shoreditch with a group of friends. I ignore her for most of the night and she ends up dancing with some dude...storms off when he tells her to buy her a drink and tries to give me the drink but I don't take it because I've been ordering Vodka cranberries with doubles the whole night and ended up dancing with a random group of Brits. Eventually she finds me again and I end up taking her outside and we are touching/hugging etc while waiting for the rest of our friends to come out. When they come out she pushes me off and starts being super emotional saying that the dude she was with spiked her drink. We all end up going to the bus and she looks super fucked up and says "Marv, I need to throw up. Marv, I need to throw up." I tell her to just throw up in the bus because I was pretty f'd up myself and didn't want to go out and wait for another bus. She storms off and I follow her. She's on the sidewalk throwing up and I start throwing up because she's throwing up. I think we were probably there for like an hour and we don't get home until around 5am. As we are walking, I tell her in the nicest way possible that she shouldn't go around trying to hook up with guys at clubs and she pushes me off of her again and starts crying. She's told me that she is currently trying to find a boyfriend and the fact that she's sharing that with me makes me think that I'm friendzoned. I overheard her and her girlfriends talk about Tinder and finding a guy through that and she went up to me and asked me while twirling her hair if she should make a Tinder account. I told her no obviously because I really like her. One other problem that compounds this situation is that she is a housemate, so It will be awkward if I confess my feelings and she rejects me. I would have no problem expressing my feelings otherwise. Cliffs: *hot and cold girl *she is my housemate *I like her a lot but I think I'm friendzoned *what do I do/is this a lost cause?