your "read a book" line reads like, do something productive.
im generally in favor of messages like that, but this isnt the place for it, especially when the dude and his wife are watching shows together.
so - it came off as supercilious.
i guess your attempt to back track is somewhat mitigating, but i dont really get it.
are you saying you listen to audio books as you post?
i wonder what kind of lol "reading" you do if you consider audio booking / posting productive.
all in all, you werent being very nice with your post.