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I do think those afflicted are helpless to "fix" the problem, because it is not something that can be fixed, it is something that is learned to live with. It is like becoming paralyzed from the waist down. There is no medical procedure, no exercise that can be done, it won't improve in time, you just learn to live with your new reality as a paraplegic.
Similarly people with clinical depression never really "get better" some days and even months are better than others but always comes back. You can chose to medicate with SSRI's but as I understand you basically take them for life, they never really "cure" you, they just mask the symptoms until you stop taking them.
I agree that helping others is a big part of happiness and being a good person in general. It can help manage depression, a healthy lifestyle in general can, but when it kicks in depression overrides anything. It doesn't care how productive, or selfless, or reflective I have been. It doesn't care if I have friends or are in love.
It sounds bleak but really the only options are: dope yourself to the gills with anti-depressants and hope you don't have a bad reaction, kill yourself, or find whatever it is that keeps you alive and trying to live with the affliction the best your can. This is a lifelong battle, I have no delusions I will ever be "cured."
If you agree that helping others is a big part of happiness then you have to acknowledge that people with depression aren't totally helpless.
I'm not offering a panacea that will magically cure depression. As you've said in other threads, this is, at its core, an issue with brain chemistry. But to say that people suffering from depression are 'helpless' simply isn't true; it denies the work of brilliant psychologists like B.F. Skinner & Victor Frankl and it also denies thousands of amazing success stories over the years.
Even people with severe clinical depression are able to make major progress with various tools. This is a documented fact; every year people with depression are able to take strides in dealing with their illness that is more productive than they could have previously imagined. Not a cure, but enormous improvement. As you say, the most severely afflicted always have to be concerned about relapse. But 'live with the affliction the best you can' offers a lot more promise than you're letting on.