We have literally never worked together. We met in high school. We were together for over 13 years, married for almost 10. We have two young kids that we coparent. She got laid off at the start of the pandemic. Her main job experience is event planning. Obviously I want her to get this job for our kids sake but I have no fucking clue how to fill this out. Who sends their ex spouse that they never worked with an employment reference form? Do I lie or do I put unknown for every answer which would probably fuck her over?