My dad grew up in a family of drinkers, fighters, and gamblers. His uncle was a top ranked professional boxer in the 50's who never kept the fighting contained to just the ring. My dad recalls his dad and uncles gambling in the house with people and one guy stabbed in the stomach and laying on the ground bleeding for cheating.
Which leads to my dad who pretty much grew up fighting from childhood through high school. This is out of the norm to me but I guess his whole side of the family just use to get in fights back in these times. Weddings, bars, wherever it was, fights use to go down. I have crazy stories from my dad's side of the family. He came to California from Colorado when he was young because my grandpa crashed into the governor of Colorado while drinking and driving.
But in the end, my dad met my mom who is complete opposite and my dad calmed down before I was born. I've never seen him drink a drop of alcohol (he used to get out of control) and he's pretty much the most laid back guy I know. He's also the most hard working person I know, grew up in construction then moved up to owning his own concrete business.
But I always said if it wasn't for my mom, I would be a big mess because my dad never seemed to think much of the small mess ups I had were a big deal because he grew around way worse.
Which leads to my dad who pretty much grew up fighting from childhood through high school. This is out of the norm to me but I guess his whole side of the family just use to get in fights back in these times. Weddings, bars, wherever it was, fights use to go down. I have crazy stories from my dad's side of the family. He came to California from Colorado when he was young because my grandpa crashed into the governor of Colorado while drinking and driving.
But in the end, my dad met my mom who is complete opposite and my dad calmed down before I was born. I've never seen him drink a drop of alcohol (he used to get out of control) and he's pretty much the most laid back guy I know. He's also the most hard working person I know, grew up in construction then moved up to owning his own concrete business.
But I always said if it wasn't for my mom, I would be a big mess because my dad never seemed to think much of the small mess ups I had were a big deal because he grew around way worse.