Social Mom passed away today

Sorry for your loss, be sure to take care of your own well being mentally and physically as you can fall into a hole that is tough to get out of. I lost my mom in February very unexpectedly and it's definitely easy to feel instantly lost. Don't be afraid to reach out if you need someone to talk to.
 
supermurph said:
Sorry for your loss man. RIP. I hate hospitals sometimes. For all the amazing things they can do to make people better, they do their fair share of dumb shit. Don't think their actions were right at all. Sorry again, and best wishes to you and your family in this difficult time.
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its how they optimize profit
not about healing someone
especially in the c-era lately
i had similar experience with my father
 
PBAC said:
she had been fighting cancer for more than a yea literally on 420 day.

They left her in a ward next to a person known to them to be infected with Covid. She got it and passed away the next day. She had opted to stop treatment and moved into a hospice. We expected her to last 3 weeks so it's unknown if Covid sped things up. I had plans to return home before then but I've missed her and have to fly home tonight/today.

My Dad was also infected with Covid from the same woman and likely everyone in that ward was too. The hospital had known she was infected since Monday and took 3 days to remove her from the ward and inform the other patient.

Last time I spoke to her she was happy about moving into the hospice just to get some peace. It was also near our home and she was excited she could see the dogs again. Didn't happen.

The hospital also told her she would be given very mild chemo but they upped the dosage significantly and didn't tell her until it was done. She was adamant she didn't want chemo and only accepted because they said t would be no stronger than an XRAY.

and sweet crikey a 600 euro last min flight from Netherlands to Ireland. I've booked last min flights from Osaka to Italy for less.

I take some solace in the fact that the day is marked with a crazy beautiful orange super moon. This is the same Supermoon that was present on my 21st birthday.
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My condolences. This is very sad to hear. It's a nightmare to see a parent pass away.
 
My condolences sherbro
 
Snubnoze707 said:
It sucks, man. Just watched my dad get wiped out by pancreatic cancer a few months ago. He decided to not do treatment and ride it out at home until the end rather than be stuck in a hospital getting poisoned.
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That’s a brave yet also really difficult decision when you have children and family you’re leaving behind. I’ve wondered once or twice how I’d choose to deal with it if I was ever unfortunate enough to get diagnosed
 
Where do you live? The hospitals in my area don't fuck around with covid like that.
 
Sorry for your loss @PBAC and may your mom rest in peace!

It sounds similiar to what I had to deal with and went through when my dad passed away 5 years ago.

I really wish you all the strength you need for the upcoming time! 🙏
 
PBAC said:
she had been fighting cancer for more than a yea literally on 420 day.

They left her in a ward next to a person known to them to be infected with Covid. She got it and passed away the next day. She had opted to stop treatment and moved into a hospice. We expected her to last 3 weeks so it's unknown if Covid sped things up. I had plans to return home before then but I've missed her and have to fly home tonight/today.

My Dad was also infected with Covid from the same woman and likely everyone in that ward was too. The hospital had known she was infected since Monday and took 3 days to remove her from the ward and inform the other patient.

Last time I spoke to her she was happy about moving into the hospice just to get some peace. It was also near our home and she was excited she could see the dogs again. Didn't happen.

The hospital also told her she would be given very mild chemo but they upped the dosage significantly and didn't tell her until it was done. She was adamant she didn't want chemo and only accepted because they said t would be no stronger than an XRAY.

and sweet crikey a 600 euro last min flight from Netherlands to Ireland. I've booked last min flights from Osaka to Italy for less.

I take some solace in the fact that the day is marked with a crazy beautiful orange super moon. This is the same Supermoon that was present on my 21st birthday.
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sorry for your loss. you sound to be taking it a lot better than i would, or maybe i'm just sensing that wrong. will there be any repercussions with the hospital? not saying it's murder, but knowing someone with it was there and doing nothing about it sounds criminal to me.
 
Sorry for your loss man. I hope you and the fam find some peace during this difficult time.
 
Damn, that's rough. Sorry to hear.

My condolences, Sherbrah.
 
I'm sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
 
RIP to your mamma, TS. Hope she’s at peace.
 
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