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You and me both, pal.What happened to separation of church and state.
I swear the older I get the more I side with Atheists
You and me both, pal.What happened to separation of church and state.
I swear the older I get the more I side with Atheists
It will probably make kids and teens wait longer to have sex, and cause some adults to get married or married sooner
Less encouraging of promiscuous sex and more encouragement to wait until you're married to have sex
In my area aka Dc area they had free condoms. Schools and many community centers had them for free. Even on the 90s and early 2000sI was thinking along the lines of improved morning or week after pills. Or perhaps a male pill you could take to fuck with your sperm temporarily. We do have a lot of resources now. The problem is the people that need them have poor access to them. They need to be easy to get and free.
That would be a completely hypothetical situation. I’m 40 now and I have two kids and there’s zero chance I have others. I never did anything that would do something I wasn’t willing to take responsibility for.Let me ask you a question. An earnest question that I hope you will answer thoughtfully. I don't know how old you are or how prolific your younger years were. Perhaps you have been a responsible earnest man your entire life. Perhaps like many you were wild when you were young and grew into it.
But let us suppose at age 40 or so, you got served with a court order for a DNA test and it turned out you accidentally impregnated a woman 16 years ago. Maybe it was a one night stand and you wore a rubber but were unlucky. She somehow found you on social media. Whatever the case, like you, this woman is staunchly pro life and chose to keep the child. Not she is asking for child support retroactively. Which Yes, is a thing.
I am sure you would be deeply disappointed and angry about not getting to be part of the child's life and upbringing. But given your undying belief in responsibility and that reproduction has consequences, I am assuming you would have no problem whatsoever kicking in what would likely be between $50-200K. Am I right about that?
It's not just financial there are many other burdens that go into having a child and some women are not prepared for that and decide to terminate the pregnancy and since they are the ones carrying the baby for 9 months the decision should be up to them.The United States spends close to a trillion dollars on welfare annually.
It should be embarrassing to the whole country that your foster care system is so bad that "it'll be a burden" is a valid reason for one of your citizens to end the existence of a future citizen.
I think making so young adults can live on their own and be responsible would be better to encourage. Wait til 18 can be realistic. I got married at 29. I don’t think that’s responsible to wait.It will probably make kids and teens wait longer to have sex, and cause some adults to get married or married sooner
Less encouraging of promiscuous sex and more encouragement to wait until you're married to have sex
I literally went to one of the best high schools in the nation in the 90s. Everything they did made things swords. Bigger classes, less time exercising all that. The govt really hasn’t been competent enough for decades to do anything like have a good child services on the fed levelThe United States spends close to a trillion dollars on welfare annually.
It should be embarrassing to the whole country that your foster care system is so bad that "it'll be a burden" is seen as a valid reason for one of your citizens to erase the potential and the existence of a future citizen.
It's not just financial there are many other burdens that go into having a child and some women are not prepared for that
and decide to terminate the pregnancy and since they are the ones carrying the baby for 9 months the decision should be up to them.
The American Taliban only mentions what sky daddy has to say when it's convenient, they even claim sky daddy says things he never says. Btw the Bible doesn't say anything about being against abortion in fact I believe it gives directions on how to perform an abortion in Numbers 5:11-31. .Bizarre to me that the religious are still trying to use legislation to force secular people into following their rules. I dont care what your sky daddy says about anything.
I'm not talking about the Bible. The group vocally opposed to abortions and funding anti abortion legislation are largely the religious right. That's literally always been the case. They feel like it's immoral, and they should be able to force other people to live according to their religious beliefs. You can argue whether they or right or wrong to feel that way, but it would be incredibly disingenuous to say that isn't the group behind this.The American Taliban only mentions what sky daddy has to say when it's convenient, they even claim sky daddy says things he never says. Btw the Bible doesn't say anything about being against abortion in fact I believe it gives directions on how to perform an abortion in Numbers 5:11-31. .
You should meet some people raised in the system and see what some of the typical outcomes look like for them.The United States spends close to a trillion dollars on welfare annually.
It should be embarrassing to the whole country that your foster care system is so bad that "it'll be a burden" is seen as a valid reason for one of your citizens to erase the potential and the existence of a future citizen.
They use the Bible which never says anything against abortion and in fact gives directions on how to perform an abortion as the reason they oppose abortion.I'm not talking about the Bible. The group vocally opposed to abortions and funding anti abortion legislation are largely the religious right. That's literally always been the case. They feel like it's immoral, and they should be able to force other people to live according to their religious beliefs. You can argue whether they or right or wrong to feel that way, but it would be incredibly disingenuous to say that isn't the group behind this.
The Bible says a lot of contradictory things. Makes it easy to pick and choose whatever matches their emotions at the moment.They use the Bible which never says anything against abortion and in fact gives directions on how to perform an abortion as the reason they oppose abortion.
I literally went to one of the best high schools in the nation in the 90s. Everything they did made things swords. Bigger classes, less time exercising all that. The govt really hasn’t been competent enough for decades to do anything like have a good child services on the fed level
You should meet some people raised in the system and see what some of the typical outcomes look like for them.
No shit. We don’t do nearly enough, imo. People are afraid to have kids and be stuck with a major financial burden before they can get their shit together. Who’s picking up the kids from school at 2:40 when both parents have to work? How are they going to afford daycare or after care? What if a kid is sick and your job doesn’t let you work from home? We. Don’t. Do. Enough. Not even close. People more and more want to be financially stable first, which is totally understandable and responsible if you ask me. You want to reduce the number of abortions? Improve the social safety net.The United States spends close to a trillion dollars on welfare annually.
It should be embarrassing to the whole country that your foster care system is so bad that "it'll be a burden" is seen as a valid reason for one of your citizens to erase the potential and the existence of a future citizen.
That's not the only issue. The right wants to force people that made a mistake to care for children they're ill equipped to care for. Which is bad for those parents, and society as a whole because they often have poor outcomes and unpleasant lives. The same people trying to force others to live bytheir moral code want nothing to do with caring for these children, or providing sufficient resources to help these parents care for them. They stick their fingers in their ears and ignore the valid complaints that it's infringing on people's liberties, the foster care system is riddled with abusers, there aren't enough people willing to adopt.Again, I don't think it's a great excuse to throw one's hands up and say "welp, we can't do foster care. Guess we're just gonna hafta kill 'em."
Try harder.
They use the Bible which never says anything against abortion and in fact gives directions on how to perform an abortion as the reason they oppose abortion.