Another entry in the “Pugilistic overthinks instead of letting himself bang” series. What has been your experience going out with older women? Specifically, do you think older women are more or less cool with casual flings? Finding out about the café girl’s absence hit me like a prime Crocop LHK to the heart, and in my attempt to alleviate the aching, I went out with some buddies to a bar. And as you do in a bar, I talked to this really cute looking chick and a had nice conversation. Short, petite, real cute mousey looking face, a combination I really like. My buddy thought she was drop dead gorgeous but this dude didn’t see the café girl so he doesn’t know there are levels to this shit. Anyway, there was a healthy amount of flirtatious give and take, and she complimented me quite a bit, which was interesting. She seemed real reserved at first but slowly opened up and started touching me. I was thinking, I could bang. Then the topic of age came up and she said she’s quite older than me. I assumed she was around my age or a couple years younger. I told her I’m 30, and you can’t be that much older than me, and she says, nope I’m quite a bit older than you. She refuses to tell me her exact age but either way, she looks great for being (presumably) in her mid or late 30s. I try to get her to stay in hopes of banging, but she says her place is a bit of a drive and she has to go to work early tomorrow so she goes home. I get her number and she tells me to call her. I feel pretty confident I could engage in bedroom acrobatics with this lady, but I feel a tad pensive in my willingness to contact her. I’m making the assumption that due to her age and her winding biological clock, that she wouldn’t be down for a casual exchange of bodily fluids. I’ve been with older women in their mid and late 30s, and in my experience, they’ve wanted to get serious real quick. A relationship is far from the list of things I want, but I also don’t want to hurt anybody. I’ve broken more hearts than pigeon necks, and I don’t plan on adding to the trail of disgruntled women in my wake. Spoiler Of course I could just be honest with her but that’s too simple and boring Cliffs: Older chick may want the D To give or not to give?