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Ive got a coworker. We will call him T. Best coworker Ive ever had. I doubt we will ever hang out with eachother outside of work, but I'd love to and have offered.

But this guy befuddles me. Hes just got no edge to him. hes too kind, genuine, innocent, soft. hes like 6'2, frat boy, and decently built( vewy fantastic body, btw ) but its impossible to imagine him getting into a fight. I feel like a man could slap his girl on the ass, spit in his face, and call him a bitch. and you know how he'd respond? by saying hes sorry and what can he do to make it better.

Every day I strive to be a little more like him. to show people appreciation, even if I dont give a fuck about them, just to make them....well, like me more. he does it because hes pure. I do it because I dont want people to know I'm secretly sizing them up and ready to absolutely fucking explode at literally any moment. sometimes I just wish T would stumble into work hungover, not dressed like a frat boy, push a male coworker and ask him what the fuck are you gonna do about it? then maybe make a disgusting crude remark about a female coworker. just once.
 
IloveTHIS said:
Ive got a coworker. We will call him T. Best coworker Ive ever had. I doubt we will ever hang out with eachother outside of work, but I'd love to and have offered.

But this guy befuddles me. Hes just got no edge to him. hes too kind, genuine, innocent, soft. hes like 6'2, frat boy, and decently built( vewy fantastic body, btw ) but its impossible to imagine him getting into a fight. I feel like a man could slap his girl on the ass, spit in his face, and call him a bitch. and you know how he'd respond? by saying hes sorry and what can he do to make it better.

Every day I strive to be a little more like him. to show people appreciation, even if I dont give a fuck about them, just to make them....well, like me more. he does it because hes pure. I do it because I dont want people to know I'm secretly sizing them up and ready to absolutely fucking explode at literally any moment. sometimes I just wish T would stumble into work hungover, not dressed like a frat boy, push a male coworker and ask him what the fuck are you gonna do about it? then maybe make a disgusting crude remark about a female coworker. just once.
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Super straight post TS, doesnt make you sound like a homo or anything.
 
That's a sign he was well raised and had a healthy childhood meaning that he didn't had to deal with shit and just focus on being a kid and have fun. Both inside and outside of home

I was also raised somewhat like this but I grew up in a not so good area so I had to deal with shit outside of home. I was pretty chill and could never understand why would some kids, usually older, try to mess with me and fight me even though I haven't done anything to them. So basically I was forced to learn how to fight to defend myself. If I hadn't have that I would probably be like this guy

I'm still very chill and respectful towards everyone but I can kick you in the head if I have to
 
Dobymick said:
That's a sign he was well raised and had a healthy childhood meaning that he didn't had to deal with shit and just focus on being a kid and have fun. Both inside and outside of home

I was also raised somewhat like this but I grew up in a not so good area so I had to deal with shit outside of home. I was pretty chill and could never understand why would some kids, usually older, try to mess with me and fight me even though I haven't done anything to them. So basically I was forced to learn how to fight to defend myself. If I hadn't have that I would probably be like this guy

I'm still very chill and respectful towards everyone but I can kick you in the head if I have to
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I was raised by 10/10 parents and literally could not have asked for a better childhood. spoiled to the point of likely being closer to my detriment than a positive. I still want to break at least 15 jaws per day and look forward to any potential confrontation. even though I was raised to give nothing but respect unless someone gives you a good reason not to. so there must be something more at play
 
I had this kid who sat near me at work, just out of college, perfect corporate hair, didn't swear and he drank his coffee through a straw so his teeth didn't get stained.

He was in a leadership development program. This was ten years ago, I assume he's either running some company now or lecturing hookers about Huey Lewis albums.
 
IloveTHIS said:
I was raised by 10/10 parents and literally could not have asked for a better childhood. spoiled to the point of likely being closer to my detriment than a positive. I still want to break at least 15 jaws per day and look forward to any potential confrontation. even though I was raised to give nothing but respect unless someone gives you a good reason not to. so there must be something more at play
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Yeah it's not the only factor but I think it's a major one. And it's just a tendency not a rule. You can see it in some families where everybody is nice and quiet but there is that one brother who is a loud asshole. Some people will just have issues no matter the environment they were brought up
 
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