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I made a plenty of fish account. I only received one message in 6 months.
Meeting Woman From Online?
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People presume that no contact means immediate disinterest. Women ghosting is usually a tell tale sign of riding cawk.
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A lot of truth there. The thing is that, no matter how disgusting a woman, there is some mental midget with a very low income willing to foot the bill. Originally, if a woman had a child out of wedlock, her genes were weeded out of the gene pool. Now a days, you got manlets and man-ginas playing Mr fix it after some skank incinerated her youth and sex appeal with the bad boys. The same woman who would have snubbed their dumb ass are cleaning up her mess.
Crazy comes from a variety of factors (genetic, lifestyle, environmental, other etc.). Women are taught they are special and a princess who can do no wrong.
Met a girl off online. She is cute but weird, dumb as fukc and has no ambition. Works 2 4hr shifts a week selling wigs (SERIOUSLY? ) and has been almost fired a handful of times due to stupidity and incompetency. She is halfway retarded. She fell out of my parked vehicle. I swear she should wear a helmet. This is the average American woman in her 20s.
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I've had a lot of success meeting chicks online. I just use OK Cupid and Tinder.
A couple of fun one night stands, one girl I actually got semi-serious with for a little while, and a few others that I never hooked up with but actually got to be pretty good friends with. I'm actually meeting up with a cute blond from okcupid tonight. She's 26 (I'm 37) and says she likes to drink. Should be fun, lol.
First chick I ever met online skates and does muay thai and even has a couple amateur fights. Sounds butchy, I know, but she's not at all. On paper she could've been my dream girl but there just wasn't that kind of connection. We still keep in touch and hang out sometimes though. We've trained as visitors at each other's gyms, gone skating together, gotten introduced to each other's circle of friends, etc.
So even if there isn't a romantic connection it's a good way to make new female friends, which obviously can lead to meeting other chicks.
I'm a fan.
That said, yeah, there are a lot of misleading pictures out there. You get better and better at picking out the fatties.
A couple of fun one night stands, one girl I actually got semi-serious with for a little while, and a few others that I never hooked up with but actually got to be pretty good friends with. I'm actually meeting up with a cute blond from okcupid tonight. She's 26 (I'm 37) and says she likes to drink. Should be fun, lol.
First chick I ever met online skates and does muay thai and even has a couple amateur fights. Sounds butchy, I know, but she's not at all. On paper she could've been my dream girl but there just wasn't that kind of connection. We still keep in touch and hang out sometimes though. We've trained as visitors at each other's gyms, gone skating together, gotten introduced to each other's circle of friends, etc.
So even if there isn't a romantic connection it's a good way to make new female friends, which obviously can lead to meeting other chicks.
I'm a fan.
That said, yeah, there are a lot of misleading pictures out there. You get better and better at picking out the fatties.
I've came across many girls over the years online who either put up old pics or just pics from the neck up. One trick that works sometimes is once she tells you her first name, go to facebook, type in her first name along with the city she lives in that's listed on her dating website profile, and a good portion of the time you'll find their facebook profile, which is where all of their current pics are, full bodyshots and all. This method has saved me from meeting a few large women in person.
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You're better off meeting women in person. So of these fems want validation...or free food. Go to the bars, library, events to meet women.
Oh yeah, if you go to the bar, don't buy her a drink unless you've engaged in some conversation prior.
Oh yeah, if you go to the bar, don't buy her a drink unless you've engaged in some conversation prior.
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I don't buy women shit. It is 2016. They buy me shit. If a dude is going to pay he may as well buy an escort. Why the first do guys buy them crap?
They take the gifts or dinner then get destroyed repeatedly in a Eifiel Tower until she's pissed away her youth and good looks. Which chump is raising he babies from different men?
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I didn't end up going out with the chick, dammit lol.
It wasn't a "date" or anything official, just turned out that she hangs out at one of my favorite live music spots every thurs so I told her if she was going tonight I'd come meet up with her. But she ended up not going. So no biggie she said she wants to meet up over the weekend.
It wasn't a "date" or anything official, just turned out that she hangs out at one of my favorite live music spots every thurs so I told her if she was going tonight I'd come meet up with her. But she ended up not going. So no biggie she said she wants to meet up over the weekend.
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I was married for a while and just got back into the dating scene a few years ago and I was surprised at how much women will insist on not only paying for themselves but trying to pay for me too.
Whoa, do you think feminism gets credit for that? Maybe I'm a feminist after all lol.
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I see you use the same stalking method as myself.
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I don't buy shit. Learned from the past. As for pissing away good looks, I'm just sitting back watching the decline in person..or on social media lol.
I've had a very high success rate dating online--this coming from a guy with very little "game".
If your profile and pics are accurate, it's almost a no-brainer. Almost any chick that is willing to meet you (and there should be plenty) will most likely be DTF after a decent date. I speak from experience, and like I said, I'm not particularly good looking nor do I have any game. I'm just an honest, non-creepy, nice guy.
Just put some accurate pictures, something funny in your profile(or whatever suits your personality), and then email every good looking / interesting chick on tinder or match or whatever you're on.
No joke, I met my wife on match.com.
If your profile and pics are accurate, it's almost a no-brainer. Almost any chick that is willing to meet you (and there should be plenty) will most likely be DTF after a decent date. I speak from experience, and like I said, I'm not particularly good looking nor do I have any game. I'm just an honest, non-creepy, nice guy.
Just put some accurate pictures, something funny in your profile(or whatever suits your personality), and then email every good looking / interesting chick on tinder or match or whatever you're on.
No joke, I met my wife on match.com.
Gotta do what we gotta do right?!
You implying I'm shallow? I have nothing against a bigger woman as long as 1) She is honest about it upfront and 2) She isn't obese...which I can't help the fact I'm not personally attracted to someone who is too big.
There is a difference between a thick girl and a huge one. I'm not conceited but I've been working out for 20 years, I take care of myself and it just puts off a bad impression that the woman doesn't care what she looks like or care about her health. I went on a date with a pretty big girl a few weeks ago knowing ahead of time she was overweight. She was pretty, nice, and we had some things in common. It just ticks me off when they try to hide it by posting old pics or pics just from the neck up. It's deceitful.
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It's appalling the degree of generic qualities in women.
"Just a country girl" = lives outside the major city and saw a farm once.
And my personal favorite... are you ready?
Proud single mom
"Loves to workout" = wear tights several sizes too tight with mini tee tucked in to show off far too much junk in the trunk + likes getting destroyed by juice monkeys
I saw a girl online use a pic of her dildo on bumble. It's just a series of dumb shit and the list goes on. Women don't hide the fact that a lot of the population is disgusting.
So, I think you see it for what it is and you get out what you seek. Ambiguity is my favorite piece for apps like tinder or bumble. Present interesr in "seeing what is out there." Tell her, "not looking (note i am using the app lol) but, i wouldnt turn away from a good thing (PUSSY LOL) AND basically swipe right at everything young, thin, and attractive. Bang. No dating. Casual encounter. See where it goes. I presume everything is a slut and act accordingly.If she isn't putting out, #next!
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Cuz you ain't doing it right. They aren't dried up old ladies. They aren't waiting for marriage. You smash it or you next it.
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Huh? Maybe I'm misunderstanding but I said these chicks are trying to pay for me as well as themselves. Seems to me like that's a good indication I'm doing it exactly right. Just found that surprising since I'd gotten used to always paying for the girl back before I got married (2006 - holy shit that was 10 years ago)
Also, some of them really are looking for marriage. Or maybe not necessarily looking for it but are open to the possibility if they meet someone they really like. The one chick I met that I got kind of serious with for a while was telling me she was in love with me and then started talking about having my babies. I wasn't super into her like that which is why I ended the relationship. Didn't feel right to keep stringing her along if I wasn't as serious as she was.
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If you are semi attractive, put a bit of effort into it and can hold a conversation, online dating is great... and not just for hookups, fatties, uggos or single moms. There are great, marriage material women who don't like the bar scene or just don't have the time for that bulls*it. I dated a girl with her masters who worked for Amex Black account celebrities, A neurosurgeon (I thought she was Bullshitting when she first told me but found her doctoral thesis), and my wife who has her bachelors in nursing.
Just a few tips that worked for me, but of course ymmv.
- If you have ever sent "Hey/Hi/Hello" as your message header to a girl, you and the other 300 guys who sent her the same message header all went straight into the trash. You have to have your message stand out... I literally used "Insert witty eye catching comment here" as my message header and it was extremely successful.
- OKC has a 5 star rating system and a randomized local match generator. I would just go through tons of pictures and glance at the overview and rate potentials as 4 if ok, 5 if good, and 1 if not at all interested... if you rate them as 4 or 5 and they do the same to you, you both get a message telling you that, and the potential for success goes up considerably. Afterwards, I would hide all the one star profiles so I didn't have to sift through garbage every visit.
- If you don't get a response the first attempt, don't give up, but don't be a creep. Consider the fact that girls get TONS of messages and delete almost all of them without even reading them. Try again a week after or message them directly if you see them on, sometimes they don't even respond to the mail and want people to message them directly... It shows initiative and no fear of direct rejection.
- Too many morons just copy/paste messages and send them to a ton of girls hoping that sending a ton of generic messages will be better than focused quality, I have NEVER got a response from using the same messsge. Overall, the gist of your messages can be the same, but tweak it so that it at least shows you looked at their profile and not just their pictures (ie: comment on something they said in their profile, and something related to their pictures that's not about their looks/what they're wearing)
- Take time to work on your profile. A half assed profile with no details or pictures might as well just be writing on a bathroom stall offering a good time.
- Include a half dozen pictures at least, no "selfies" if you can help it(taking pictures of yourself makes it look like you don't have friends), include at least one where you are smiling, one that has your full body and one that is interesting (I had a pic my friend took of me and one of my favorite bands at an autograph signing), and strange as it sounds, one where you are not looking at the camera.
- Even if you're not "alpha", think like one. If you get a response and start hitting it off, talk about meeting up somewhere asap. The longer you wait, the higher chance shes going to think either you're not serious or some other guy will ask her.
It's literally as easy as this:
You: "So, do you have any plans this weekend/tonight/tomorrow/etc.?"
Them: "Not really"
You: You do now. we're going out to (insert place here).
If they reject the "offer", I'd almost suggest cutting your losses then and there because the likelihood that you will ever meet is slim.
Just a few tips that worked for me, but of course ymmv.
- If you have ever sent "Hey/Hi/Hello" as your message header to a girl, you and the other 300 guys who sent her the same message header all went straight into the trash. You have to have your message stand out... I literally used "Insert witty eye catching comment here" as my message header and it was extremely successful.
- OKC has a 5 star rating system and a randomized local match generator. I would just go through tons of pictures and glance at the overview and rate potentials as 4 if ok, 5 if good, and 1 if not at all interested... if you rate them as 4 or 5 and they do the same to you, you both get a message telling you that, and the potential for success goes up considerably. Afterwards, I would hide all the one star profiles so I didn't have to sift through garbage every visit.
- If you don't get a response the first attempt, don't give up, but don't be a creep. Consider the fact that girls get TONS of messages and delete almost all of them without even reading them. Try again a week after or message them directly if you see them on, sometimes they don't even respond to the mail and want people to message them directly... It shows initiative and no fear of direct rejection.
- Too many morons just copy/paste messages and send them to a ton of girls hoping that sending a ton of generic messages will be better than focused quality, I have NEVER got a response from using the same messsge. Overall, the gist of your messages can be the same, but tweak it so that it at least shows you looked at their profile and not just their pictures (ie: comment on something they said in their profile, and something related to their pictures that's not about their looks/what they're wearing)
- Take time to work on your profile. A half assed profile with no details or pictures might as well just be writing on a bathroom stall offering a good time.
- Include a half dozen pictures at least, no "selfies" if you can help it(taking pictures of yourself makes it look like you don't have friends), include at least one where you are smiling, one that has your full body and one that is interesting (I had a pic my friend took of me and one of my favorite bands at an autograph signing), and strange as it sounds, one where you are not looking at the camera.
- Even if you're not "alpha", think like one. If you get a response and start hitting it off, talk about meeting up somewhere asap. The longer you wait, the higher chance shes going to think either you're not serious or some other guy will ask her.
It's literally as easy as this:
You: "So, do you have any plans this weekend/tonight/tomorrow/etc.?"
Them: "Not really"
You: You do now. we're going out to (insert place here).
If they reject the "offer", I'd almost suggest cutting your losses then and there because the likelihood that you will ever meet is slim.
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