it felt different than seeing an ex or something where I know what they look like in an intimate sense and how they like to get down, because once you've been around them they register as real people. But I had a weird experience a few weeks ago. My lady friend became friends with this girl from Nebraska who makes ends meet by being a cam girl. She visited us, and when she came in and we started hanging out and smoking weed, it was kind of a mindfuck trying to get to know her because in the back of my judgemental mind, I couldn't stop thinking "oh shit, so this is what you look like clothed" and "ah, now I get to see what you look like without a dildo in your lady parts". And I don't think those thoughts in a condescending way, good for her, girl power and all, but it wasn't like meeting a random, didn't feel like we were starting from scratch at all. It turned out fun and we're friends now, not like BFFs, but we're cool. Anyone wanna share how they felt in a similar experience?