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  1. 76Knockout

    76Knockout Silver Belt

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    Posted this in the plats, and overwhelming response was gtfo. But was wondering what mayberry thought of this/wider audience.




    Okay, met a girl online about 2 months ago.

    OKcupid to be specific.

    She liked/messaged me first, we talked back and forth for a few days, she then asked for my number.

    So we started texting, for a week or so. Most of the time she instigated the conversation.

    We after talking for about 3 weeks, decided to meet up.

    We went on 3 dates in like a week. Took her out to eat one time, on a walk the other, and to a movie the 3rd time. I drove, and paid for everything.

    One thing that was bugging me was she would never add me on fb, so i of course had to look her up.

    Sure enough when i look her up, her profile pic is of her and some guy...

    Now to clarify, i met her on OKcupid (dating site), and in her profile she's listed as SINGLE, AND she instigated everything...

    So i called her out on it, sure enough she says somthing along the lines of "Yeahhh, i have been dating this other guy a few years, but I'm not sure about him somtimes etc, i want to see what else is out there"

    So, like anyone would do i said fuck this. I've been cheated on before, I won't be that guy.

    I said that's fucked up, i was pissed. I said get back to me when your single.

    Then about a week ago she randomly messages me that she broke up with her bf, and wants to see me blah blah blah.

    I took awhile to get back to her but eventually agreed.

    We hung out this past Thursday, just sat and talked in my car. Made out but that was it.

    I was stolked because besides her being taken, i really liked her.

    But i had this guy feeling last night, a bad one. I straight up asked if she lied about breaking up with her BF, because she was being super flakey about when we could hang out again.

    Sure enough i get a response this morning that she's still with him.





    I like this girl, but should i just say fuck it at this point?
     
  2. Nonsense

    Nonsense Silver Belt

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    What in the world.

    Of course say fuck it.

    She lied to her boyfriend and is cheating on him.

    She lied to you too.

    Not little white lies. Big lies about her life.

    She is a lying sack of shit whom you will never ever ever ever in a million years be able to trust.
     
  3. A.A. Riggs

    A.A. Riggs SAXOPHONE

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  4. 76Knockout

    76Knockout Silver Belt

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    Seems like a no nonsense approach/response.

    Lol, but no i get it. You're right, just sucks, I've had shitty luck like this lately.
     
  5. Nonsense

    Nonsense Silver Belt

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    I am sleeping a lot Tiggy. I have not forgotten you. Hug hug hug.
     
  6. Matt M

    Matt M It is happening again....

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    Believe me, girls like that are not to be trusted.

    When I first met my ex she had a boyfriend. Even before we got together all she ever did was publicly moan about him, literally never a single positive thing to say about him, hinted that he was a bit abusive etc.
    So I was seeing her when she was still with him but when we split up she split up with him about a week later after being with him for years, which was a bit annoying.

    Anyway, we didn't speak or anything for like 2 years even tho we had mutual friends.
    Then after two years we suddenly got back together. Were together for about 2 years then split up but remained friends.
    Whilst remaining friends she had a boyfriend again, and once more all she did was moan about him.
    She split up with him and got another boyfriend and actually slept with me whilst with him.

    So basically, a girl who is cheating like that will keep doing it and she'll definitely do it to you.
    Not worth the stress, worry and hassle.
     
  7. 76Knockout

    76Knockout Silver Belt

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    Thanks for the insight, good advice. Fuck
     
  8. zackryder

    zackryder Long Island Iced Z Platinum Member

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    dude so many red flags in yo story

    1. she lied to u (some ppl can 4give but a liars always a liar. ur only as good as ur word)

    2. she decided to cheat on her bf. if u became her bf, shed prob do the same thing 2 u

    3. she just straight up sounds shady as hell. if u want a serious relationship/intimacy, abandon @ once

    also pics 4 further advice
     
  9. Nonsense

    Nonsense Silver Belt

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    Look. You seem a little resistant to walking away. And that's your choice. But if you try to make any kind of go at it with her, you WILL get fucked over, and so will her boyfriend. It is a certainty.

    Maybe you think the journey will make up for the destination. That's up to you.
     
  10. Bobby Boulders

    Bobby Boulders My Lovin' Is Digi Platinum Member

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    Bobby Boulders My Lovin' Is Digi Platinum Member

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    She doesn't want a relationship, TS. She wants the D.
     
  12. zackryder

    zackryder Long Island Iced Z Platinum Member

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    u of all ppl should know (im being sexist btw :redface:) that when some guys go after chicks, they go all out & get their hearts broken. theyre really stubborn to change & sometimes when theres not alot of options, they put da pussy on da pedestal

    im sure uve broken some hearts nonsense XD (im a dude & even ive broken some hearts b4)
     
  13. 76Knockout

    76Knockout Silver Belt

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    I want a relationship, so sounds like I'm shit outta luck with this one.
     
  14. Michaelangelo

    Michaelangelo Okay USA Platinum Member

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    usually after 3 dates you should move on anyways
     
  15. Michaelangelo

    Michaelangelo Okay USA Platinum Member

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    Yeah don't do that lol
     
  16. 76Knockout

    76Knockout Silver Belt

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    Call me soft but i feel bad for the BF who had/has no idea..
     
  17. RTL

    RTL NostraMMAus™ Platinum Member

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    Bros before woes; give him a heads-up and watch the carnage from a distance.
     
  18. zackryder

    zackryder Long Island Iced Z Platinum Member

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    yes. 100% outta luck

    but sometimes ur brain will f*** w) u, makin u think everythin will b alrite in the end & that she'll change (yada yada yada). itll give u false hope & sometimes false dreams. in reality, u gotta get rid of these thoughts and use logic to make sense of everythin.
     
  19. 76Knockout

    76Knockout Silver Belt

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    I want to do this, and have thought about it.

    I could easily send him a fb message, and even provide him with evidence of our conversations.

    i wasn't sure how i felt about it, but i kinda think i should.

    fuck, I'd want to know.

    I only ever saw her again because she said she was single ffs.
     
  20. 76Knockout

    76Knockout Silver Belt

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    Word, man.

    You guys are helping me realize this.
     

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