Posted this in the plats, and overwhelming response was gtfo. But was wondering what mayberry thought of this/wider audience. Okay, met a girl online about 2 months ago. OKcupid to be specific. She liked/messaged me first, we talked back and forth for a few days, she then asked for my number. So we started texting, for a week or so. Most of the time she instigated the conversation. We after talking for about 3 weeks, decided to meet up. We went on 3 dates in like a week. Took her out to eat one time, on a walk the other, and to a movie the 3rd time. I drove, and paid for everything. One thing that was bugging me was she would never add me on fb, so i of course had to look her up. Sure enough when i look her up, her profile pic is of her and some guy... Now to clarify, i met her on OKcupid (dating site), and in her profile she's listed as SINGLE, AND she instigated everything... So i called her out on it, sure enough she says somthing along the lines of "Yeahhh, i have been dating this other guy a few years, but I'm not sure about him somtimes etc, i want to see what else is out there" So, like anyone would do i said fuck this. I've been cheated on before, I won't be that guy. I said that's fucked up, i was pissed. I said get back to me when your single. Then about a week ago she randomly messages me that she broke up with her bf, and wants to see me blah blah blah. I took awhile to get back to her but eventually agreed. We hung out this past Thursday, just sat and talked in my car. Made out but that was it. I was stolked because besides her being taken, i really liked her. But i had this guy feeling last night, a bad one. I straight up asked if she lied about breaking up with her BF, because she was being super flakey about when we could hang out again. Sure enough i get a response this morning that she's still with him. I like this girl, but should i just say fuck it at this point?