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I sure as hell think it would be.
You sort of got to be a narcissistic dude to get a really high level of satisfaction out of your kids accomplishments like that.
I think that plays a role in a lot of guys having kids. They view their children's accomplishments as their own accomplishments. It's like their kids are an outlet for them to accomplish some of the things in life that they couldn't or no longer can do. More often than not, when dudes are in ecstasy over their kids accomplishments, it's not really because they're happy for their kid. They're ecstatic because they feel like THEY have accomplished something. This is why a lot of parents will become ecstatic about their kids graduating college or getting a huge promotion, but rarely if ever take the time to sit down and ask their kids if they're happy.
The older I get the more I realize that most people that have kids or people that should have never had them.
I love my kids and I'm glad I had them. With that said I would take a vacation over watching then do small things like playing baseball or something like that. I just really enjoy traveling and seeing the world though so that might add to it.
That doesn't mean I don't get excited watching him do other things. I've been letting him play video games lately and I saw him do something in the game I didn't realize he figured out how to do it and it put a smile on my face. That's the great thing is you don't have to pick and choose which is better you can have both.