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lol, way to just out yourself as having herpes.
Way to out yourself as a prude
lol, way to just out yourself as having herpes.
Way to out yourself as a prude
I just read the thread with the guy who found his wife's sex tape.
What a complete loser. I didn't expect to side with the wife on that one, but I do. Dude has some issues. Most girls that get gangbanged do it, on some level, for male approval. They eventually learn that no man will date you after he and all of his buddies have defiled you. I can totally understand a woman then thinking she needs to be a lady to attract and keep a man.
Dude is acting like his wife stabbed him. Get the fuck over it.
If it was my wife/girlfriend, even if it didn't erupt all of my insecurities about her attraction to me or my sexual prowess like it clearly did with him.
Your wife gets gangbanged by 5 dudes letting them fuck her ass, atm, while calling herself a dirty whore but she'll only let you fuck her dead starfish style and won't even give you head? I don't see how that wouldn't erupt a bunch of insecurities out of any man.
I just started reading that one. It's a fucked up thing to happen but right from the get go he's handling it poorly.
Sex can be a big part of identity for some people, and the anxiety that comes from taking it so seriously can be paralyzing. It becomes a lose-lose when she viscerally wants the crazy things but can't help thinking that the erotic mentality - which is supposed to be somewhat fantastical and restricted - will leak into other aspects of the relationship.
The guy's job is to allow her to open up in a contained environment and keep stable everywhere else even when she's a freak in the sac.
He's been with her for years, he's married to her, and they have a kid. If she hasn't opened up to him sexually after all of that, I have a hard time believing that she'd ever do it.
That's what I mean though. She has all that stability, she's not going to threaten her rep now by letting him stick it in her bum. They're way past that being a possibility short of her having some kind of crisis that she wants to pull him in on.
He was complacent and got mad when reality smacked him in the face - which sucks, but if you're not the type of guy who can picture yourself on one of those tapes you shouldn't be surprised when that's how it works out.
As somebody who had a marriage hit the rocks due to a whore wife's infidelity, this was a pretty gut-wrenching read...