do you think some people waste the time they have being single, so that when they end up in a relationship or potential one then they aren't in the mental emotional or financial place they need to be to give the relationship the best chance to survive. an what i mean is that you see guys who all they did was talk about finding the right girl, now that they have her all they want to do is hang w/the guys or hit the club. Or guys who never focused on school or careers when all their time was theirs; now they get a woman and all they want to do is work or study, which is cool. But now it impacts your relationship; an then they complain about her wanting time and attention, did you not understand relationships go two ways and you were gonna have to put into it, not just take. this goes for girls too i just hear alot of people who whine and bitch about wanting to be w/someone, then they get someone and instantly want the benefits or freedoms of single life; when they had it and didn't take adv of it when they were single.