That marriage was bound for divorce from its inception, by virtue of the fact that the chick started off with “I never cared about marriage….”. She had no business tying the knot to begin with. To her it was just a formality. That’s not how successful marriages work. And the dude sounds like a typical douche bag incapable of following simple requests. He probably posts here. I would explain why you never been married experts are wrong per the usual, but I’d get more understanding from a wall.