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I think legally once both are 18 all bets are off but I think collages will fire you for this.
Judge refuses to dismiss rape charges against teacher
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I think legally once both are 18 all bets are off but I think collages will fire you for this.
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There probably should be, girls mature faster physically and emotionally. Plus older man, younger woman makes better porn than older woman, younger man.
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You convinced me. All that means is that there is an even greater amount of legal women who could have sex with me but won't
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You convinced me. All that means is that there is an even greater amount of legal women who could have sex with me but won't
That's why we have rape culture.
(no I do not endorse rape except when making bad jokes then it's a two-fer because I'm probably raping your ears with my joke. Meaning that I'm forcing my joke into our ears even if you don't want it. I'm penetrating your mind with bad humor. I get off on this. Arrest me. #rape culture)
(that last paragraph was a joke too)
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Depends on the college. Generally American teritary institutions have guidelines in place that prohibits sexual relations between students and teaching staff. The main reason for this (apart from the fact it affects teacher bias) is the asymmetrical nature of the power relationship, in particular the fact students are conditioned from a very young age to accept orders from teachers. In other places in the world relationships are discouraged or need to be declared to an internal body in the university.
The reality however is most universities are a cesspool of emotionally immature professors (a staggering number of which would fall somewhere in the narcissist spectrum) who use their power, money and proximity to find their new "protege" every couple of years. Most departments have at least one of these guys, and in general, because all universities are old boys clubs the facility turns a blind eyes unless the relationship becomes politically damaging.
The amount of "date rape," in which a professor invites a student to their house and has sex with them would probably blow the mind of most people in this thread. I say "date rape" because the combination of alcohol, drugs and the power asymmetry often leaves the student with basically no agency.
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Damn, I was just getting warmed up.
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She's not a hero. She's just attractive.
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You seem like a fun guy.
Because I don't like seeing educators abuse their power and I know it happens far too often?
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I don't literally feel the woman is a hero or that she should be given a medal.
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Give a medal to a wife and mother of two kids who commits adultery with a 16 yr old boy? She is one very messed up woman and she made a terrible decision.
Edit: Just saw your post above. Sorry.
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this kid now has a good story to tell when he's older .. plus it probably helped him in dealing with the girls .. nothing to see here .. as much as people wanna try to say it .. men and women are not the same .. and these type of cases are not 'equal'
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Really? I have personal experience of one male student who killed themselves when their female teacher ended their relationship and I know of another where a male student killed his teacher when their teacher ended their sexual liaison. Teenage boys are not emotionally very stable.
Fucks knows how this drama will effect the student involved and who knows what impact it might have on teacher-student trust among other students close to the situation. Additionally, this sort of incident undermines other female teachers ability to perform their job.
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I think it can hurt the guy later on. Heck it can hurt the guy in high school. Good luck getting a prom date. Not one father of a girl in the school would want his daughter going with this guy to prom.
Father: Who's your prom date honey?
Daughter: The guy that screwed my English teacher. But he's nice.
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ok I get what you're saying .. I'm not condoning this type of behavior as a normal occurrence but we're all human .. I'm just saying .. a lot of guys have had these encounters at that age .. not necessarily always with a teacher but with other older females where it was probably inappropriate .. I'm sure it didn't negatively impact the rest of their lives .. I don't know if that's the case here though
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The older woman is a sexual fantasy most young men have, and while probably not good idea, a sexual relationship as a teen with an older woman (presuming the youth is of legal age) isn't the same as one with a teacher for a multitude of reasons.
I don't have a moral objection to a legal relationship with an age difference. I do have ethical (and professional) problems with any teacher student relationship.
To give you an idea of how endemic and undermining sexual relationships are in teritary institutions, I've been told by many women I've worked with that when female phd students obtain positions in the department, the other female members of the faculty wonder who they fucked to get that position.
Tough because the adventurous minds of youth combined with the desperate teacher of age usually forms a unique bond. The teacher should have been more disciplined due to age but the youth could have very well known the ramifications but still when you have to go you have to go. The amount of time it was going on rape is out of the question for that long durations. Some enjoyment had to be had from both sides.
