Its Been Two Months And I'm Still Depressed About Ex Girlfriend

DaleyChamp said:
She just left me out of knowhere. It hurts so bad. Shes out living her life now and i barely leave the house and think about her nonstop. Im starting to feel like i'd be better off not here.
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You have to force your self to go out and have some new experiences.

Not only will it give you something else to occupy you mind with, but it also make your life less shitty in general.
 
Sorry buddy, we've all been there. You need a slumpbuster. Even a fat chick will do, just get it outta your system. Right @nofatchicks ?
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Guys, do you really want to keep feeding this sub-par troll?
 
DaleyChamp said:
Yeh definitely need closure!! And right just feel like I cant live without her.
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It's not necessarily the person you miss, but the idea of being with someone. Loneliness is a tough feeling. When you first click with a woman, it can feel like life is finally all right. Hell, it might just feel good but you remember it as feeling better than it really did. Just remember that you are a prize to whatever lucky woman gets you; you've shown a deep emotional connection for someone you loved already.
 
She was probably tired of you being on sherdog,

Her and her friends are laughing at this thread on some rich guys yacht right now topless
 
KojiW said:
Send her a letter:

Dear [her name]:

I know the counsellor said we shouldn't contact each other during our "cooling off" period, but I couldn't wait anymore. The day you left, I swore I'd never talk to you again. But that was just the wounded little boy in me talking. Still, I never wanted to be the first one to make contact.

In my fantasies, it was always you who would come crawling back to me. I guess my pride needed that. But now I see that my pride's cost me a lot of things. I'm tired of pretending I don't miss you. I don't care about looking bad anymore. I don't care who makes the first move as long as one of us does. Maybe it's time we let our hearts speak as loudly as our hurt. And this is what my heart says...

"There's no one like you, Susan." I look for you in the eyes and breasts of every woman I see, but they're not you. They're not even close. Two weeks ago, I met this girl at Ithaca Bar and brought her home with me. I don't say this to hurt you, but just to illustrate the depth of my desperation. She was young, maybe 19, with one of those perfect bodies that only youth and maybe a childhood spent ice skating can give you. I mean, just a perfect body. Jugs you wouldn't believe and an ass like a tortoise shell. Every man's dream, right? But as I sat on the couch being blown by this stunner, I thought, look at the stuff we've made important in our lives. It's all so superficial. What does a perfect body mean?

Does it make her better in bed? Well, in this case, yes. But you see what I'm getting at. Does it make her a better person? Does she have a better heart than my moderately attractive Susan? I doubt it. And I'd never really thought of that before. I Don't know, maybe I'm just growing up a little.

Later, after I'd tossed her about a half a pint of throat yogurt, I found myself thinking, "why do I feel so drained and empty?" It wasn't just her flawless technique or her slutty, shameless hunger, but something else. Some ****ling feeling of loss. Why did it feel so incomplete? And then it hit me.

It didn't feel the same because you weren't there, Susan, to watch. Do you know what I mean? Nothing feels the same without you. Jesus, Susan, I'm just going crazy without you. And everything I do just reminds me of you.

Do you remember Carol, that single mom we met in Upper Side last year? Well, she dropped by last week with a pan of lasagna. She said she figured I wasn't eating right without a woman around. I didn't know what she meant till later, but that's not the real story. Anyway, we had a few glasses of wine and the next thing you know we're banging away in our old bedroom. And this tart's a total monster in the sack. She's giving me everything, you know like a real woman does when she's not hung up about her weight or her career and whether the kids can hear us. And all of a sudden she spots that tilting mirror on your grandmother's old vanity. So she puts it on the floor and we straddle it, right, so we can watch ourselves. And it's totally hot, but it makes me sad too. 'Cause I can't help thinking, "Why didn't Susan ever put the mirror on the floor? We've had this old vanity for what, 14 years, and we never used it as a sex aid."

Saturday, your sister drops by with my copy of the restraining order. I mean, Vicky's just a kid and all, but she's got a pretty good head on her shoulders and she's been a real friend to me during this painful time.

She's given me lots of good counsel about you and about women in general. She’s pulling for us to get back together, Susan, She really is. So we're drinking in a hot bath and talking about happier times. Here's this teenage girl with the same DNA as you and all I can do is think of how much she looked like you when you were 18. And that just about makes me cry. And then it turns out Vicky's really into the whole anal thing and that gets me to thinking about how many times I pressured you about trying it and how that probably fuelled some of the bitterness between us.

But do you see how even then, when I'm thrusting inside your baby sister's cinnamon ring, all I can do is think of you? It's true, Susan. In your heart you know it. Don't you think we could start over? Just wipe out all the grievances and start fresh? I think we can.

If you feel the same please, please, please let me know, otherwise, can you let me know where the remote control is.
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Lol. Well done.
 
Only one option here


Email mom and ask how she could ever have left whoever she left before you got created
 
You and mikeholmes should go gay for each other, you both have issues and make crappy threads.
 
I was there about 2 years ago...without the suicidal thoughts.

I remember the first 4 months being really bad. The next 3 i still felt it, but it was a lot more manageable.

What helped me the most was being around people. Made a point to hang out with friends a lot more than i had been doing at the time. There was nothing good waiting for me at home when i was by myself.
 
MikeHolmes said:
It's not necessarily the person you miss, but the idea of being with someone. Loneliness is a tough feeling. When you first click with a woman, it can feel like life is finally all right. Hell, it might just feel good but you remember it as feeling better than it really did. Just remember that you are a prize to whatever lucky woman gets you; you've shown a deep emotional connection for someone you loved already.
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You’re right in that it has nothing to do with the woman. You have to address the loneliness itself. It’s a hole in your heart that won’t be filled by a girlfriend or multiple lays with different women. You’re not depressed because of her, and your happiness doesn’t depend on another person. Don’t put that weight on somebody else. It’s probably why she left you in the first place. Don’t blame the other person for leaving, and instead focus on yourself and use it as an opportunity for self-improvement. If you don’t figure this out, you’ll always be lonely and depressed. Even if she did come back, even if you are in a decade long relationship, with kids and a dog, that loneliness will always creep back in if you don’t know how to deal with it.
 
DaleyC and Synthes keeping it real in the Berry with their unintentional comedic posting.
 
Lmao another one of these Daley champ threads. Jesus. There's no way you're for real
 
Victor Maitland said:
how about...
you concentrate on improving yourself....
completely avoid all contact with this girl..
then she see's you in 12 months time , vastly improved in every area...
then she regrets leaving you..

you start working out , get better clothes , better haircut..
everything better..
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This is great advice. Concentrate on your hobbies too. If you don't have one get one or several. If your bored create a type of schedule, get a calendar and fill every hour, every day and week with things to do.
 
The best thing to do is get jacked. Im not kidding either, work on looking good by lifting in the gym and improve your physique and abilities. Working out will make you feel good naturally (from all the endorphins), forcing yourself to get on a proper diet loaded with nutrients is necessary in a time when your life is unruly.....its good to be regimented. By the end of it you will look better, feel better and girls will notice. Trust me its the best thing to do in this case.
 
DaleyChamp said:
She just left me out of knowhere. It hurts so bad. Shes out living her life now and i barely leave the house and think about her nonstop. Im starting to feel like i'd be better off not here.
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Stop fucking moping around and start working out and doing shit. Force yourself to.
 
The best revenge is to get in great shape, find a great person that makes you happy and live a happy life. Honestly the times I've gotten into the best shape in my life were the times right after I got dumped. It's great motivation. Now go out there and fuck around for a bit and have some fun.
 
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