In submissions, especially with new people involved, I think both players have a responsibility to make the most of the situation.
- Experienced guy puts new guy in submission, but doesn't apply pressure yet, pausing to see new guy's response.
- New guy has choice to defend, tap, or do nothing. New guy shouldn't tap, but new guy may not recognize that he will be submitted.
- Experienced guy gradually applies more pressure until tap or reversal, or releases the hold because it doesn't seem to be working.
Of course, when the guy isn't so new, you wouldn't have to wait and see their response, since they should know enough to tap out.
- Experienced guy puts new guy in submission, but doesn't apply pressure yet, pausing to see new guy's response.
- New guy has choice to defend, tap, or do nothing. New guy shouldn't tap, but new guy may not recognize that he will be submitted.
- Experienced guy gradually applies more pressure until tap or reversal, or releases the hold because it doesn't seem to be working.
Of course, when the guy isn't so new, you wouldn't have to wait and see their response, since they should know enough to tap out.