Is marriage really worth it?

ga_ninja

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I've never understood why some guys act like females when it comes to tying the knot. Most married people I know are miserable, that's why most married people cheat. I had a homie who said fuck it got married after a six month relay.
Fast forward two years he's getting divorced and crying all the time, even went borderline suicidal all because she was getting snow plowed by various dudes. She was even fucking her ex...smh these ho's ain't loyal I'm never getting married.
 
In my case, yes. I'm happily married. But it can be a crap shoot for some just hoping for something "normal."
 
I think to many people view marriage as a necessity (like having kids).

I don't view it as necessary at all, but I'm 100% down with marrying someone with extremely similar beliefs, goals, likes, etc., but I would definitely need to live with them and see them at their first. It blows my mind that people get married without living together first and getting to know them 100%.
 
no
unless it's a sugar mama

I literally can't fathom another single reason that benefits the man (or the breadwinner, whoever that is) in regards to marriage......
 
can you be 100% certain your wife isnt cheating on you?

Can anyone? Simple answer would be no, because I'm not with her 100% of the time. Just the same, she couldn't be 100% certain I'm not cheating on her. But, I trust her enough to have 2 kids with her and share our money and all the other things that comes with being married.
 
I think to many people view marriage as a necessity (like having kids).

I don't view it as necessary at all, but I'm 100% down with marrying someone with extremely similar beliefs, goals, likes, etc., but I would definitely need to live with them and see them at their first. It blows my mind that people get married without living together first and getting to know them 100%.
you can never truly know someone 100%; everybody lies.
 
My 4 closest friends got married in the past 2 years.
One of them just announced his divorce after 1 year of being married.
Another one is on the fence if he should continue being together or if they break up. One just had a baby and is doing ok and the other one is gay and the girl doesn't know but he got married cause he wanted a kid so they're probably getting split in the next few years.

I should say that they don't complain that much but there's a lot that they're not saying. I've never seen them this dull and restrained in the 20 years that I've known them. They don't look happy.
That's just my experience from those close to me.
 
I just got married last week. It's been awesome so far. My wife is hot and we just hate on people (and each other) all day errday.
 
There's really no substitute for building a life with a long-term partner. Not gonna recommend anyone else do it though.
 
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