Is anyone here actually happy in their relationship?

Zazen

Zazen

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All I see everyday are threads with people complaining about how bad their gf is or how bad their wife is or marriage is in general. Is anyone actually happy? I got married when I was 30 years old and never regretted it. Still happily married.

Any reason behind people being so anti-marriage on this website?
 
Overall yes. Only problem is she doesn't work so she's always home. I miss having time to myself. Im either at work or at home with her.
 
TribalDrumz said:
Tons of BETAS on here brah.
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I find young people in general avoid responsibility. I'm 34 and I'm the only guy in my office who is married. Everyone else is around my age but sits around and plays games all day in their free time. Kinda sad
 
I don’t know I see a lot of positive posts like- best thing that ever happened to me, changed my life for the positive, wouldn’t trade for anything- type stuff all the time on here.

The negativity just tends to be more prominent in your mind because people create threads based on the negative but just make individual posts within broader threads about the positive. So when you’re looking down thread titles, you’ll see a skew toward the “my girlfriend gave me an iPad” types.
 
mb23100 said:
Overall yes. Only problem is she doesn't work so she's always home. I miss having time to myself. Im either at work or at home with her.
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My wife is pretty cool, once every year or two I go with my buddy to Japan and it is just the two of us. Most of the time we are bar hopping and enjoying food and drink. She trusts me and knows I'm not going to bang any random girls. It's been tempting but I'm not one to cheat.

Maybe you could arrange something like that too. Whether it is camping, traveling, etc.
 
People that are happy dont make threads. What is interesting about a thread about a good normal relationship?

I bet a lot of people think they are happy but dont know any better. They think they are happy just because the thought of being alone scares them
 
Zazen said:
My wife is pretty cool, once every year or two I go with my buddy to Japan and it is just the two of us. Most of the time we are bar hopping and enjoying food and drink. She trusts me and knows I'm not going to bang any random girls. It's been tempting but I'm not one to cheat.

Maybe you could arrange something like that too. Whether it is camping, traveling, etc.
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We actually have a great time traveling together. One of the things I like the most about her is she's down for anything and doesn't complain if shit doesn't work out. I need time to sit around drink beer and play video games with my friends.
 
Zazen said:
All I see everyday are threads with people complaining about how bad their gf is or how bad their wife is or marriage is in general. Is anyone actually happy? I got married when I was 30 years old and never regretted it. Still happily married.

Any reason behind people being so anti-marriage on this website?
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Marriage is where sex goes to die..
 
Married and happy checking in.
 
Zazen said:
All I see everyday are threads with people complaining about how bad their gf is or how bad their wife is or marriage is in general. Is anyone actually happy? I got married when I was 30 years old and never regretted it. Still happily married.

Any reason behind people being so anti-marriage on this website?
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I'm absolutely happy - I just have a high sex drive and want to fuck everything in sight. Female.
 
You can be happy overall with a relationship and still have complaints. I'd assume everybody does after a while. Generally people are on their best behavior and covering up for their shortcomings for a good 5 months of a new relationship. Even if you're happy with the relationship, there's still going to be some negative things that weren't there early on.
 
Had an Uber cunt step mom that made me learn the meaning of a crazy bitch from about age 11-14.
Have a most stable relationship built on communication love and understanding with my wife now 15 yrs this September.
Would literally drive to Florida to spit on her grave now. Fuck you Brenda
 
I don't know why couples feel like they need to do everything together, take a hour or two a day to do something on you're own.
 
Mostly, yeah. After years of marriage you’re going to build up some irritability and frustration, but overall I’m a lot happier married than I was single, and a lot happier than I ever thought I’d be in life. So I don’t complain.
 
Happily married for 15+ years.
 
Playswellwithlawndarts said:
Had an Uber cunt step mom that made me learn the meaning of a crazy bitch from about age 11-14.
Have a most stable relationship built on communication love and understanding with my wife now 15 yrs this September.
Would literally drive to Florida to spit on her grave now. Fuck you Brenda
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A bit more clarity would do wonders for.this otherwise nice post. So that we dont think you're looking fwd to spitting on ur wife-of-15-years' grave for a reason not apparent from the remainder of your post lol
 
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happily married and love my wife comin up on 10 years this summer
 
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