Is a guy creepy if he's waiting for a 17 year old girl to turn 18?

[Gracious Warrior]

This is a bit tricky. I think intent matters and in my book your desire for the 17 yr old (even tho you show restraint) is just as blameworthy as doing the actual deed with her.

What you guys think?

 

[chill doggie]

I think that first and foremost he is law-abiding.
Respect.

 

[nostradumbass]

Uh, you don't think it kind of depends on how old the guy is? It's the opposite of creepy if an 18 year old dude is waiting for his gf to turn 18 to have sex.

 

[fingercuffs]

This is a bit tricky. I think intent matters and in my book your desire for the 17 yr old (even tho you show restraint) is just as blameworthy as doing the actual deed with her.

What you guys think?

Depends. How old are you and how long have you been dating her?

 

[Cole train]

Germany and estonia and some other places have age limit of 14

Think about that

 

[Provocateur]

Back in the day tons of people openly admitted to waiting for Britney to turn 18. Sadly she never did playboy.

 

[Alphaboy]

Yes, I've always said that.

It's like minimum wage, "we'd pay you even lower if we could but it's illegal!"

I saw a "countdown until she turns 18" clock one time. I can't remember if it was for the Olson Twins a long time ago or Selena Gomez. I can't remember, some 17 year old at the time girl.

 

[Superbad]

Maybe but it’s a lot less creepy than if he doesn’t wait until she’s 18.

 

[HARRISON_3]

Waiting like...at the mall?

 

[TankvsNelmark]

Germany and estonia and some other places have age limit of 14

Think about that

Canada also I believe its now 16

 

[Bacco]

Technically that dude can already bang her in most nations thanks to age of consent, so

 

[bufetadanacara]

This is a bit tricky. I think intent matters and in my book your desire for the 17 yr old (even tho you show restraint) is just as blameworthy as doing the actual deed with her.

What you guys think?

Wanting is just as blameworthy as doing the actual deed?


That's a stretch.

 

[fingercuffs]

Oh lol, you're the 30 year old guy who wants the pure as the driven snow virgin girl. 17? Come on.

 

[Provocateur]

Waiting like...at the mall?

Like in the closet.

 

[aerius]

Age of consent is 16 where I live, I'm not seeing what the problem is.

 

[IndyCovaHart]

This stuff is so arbitrary if we’re being honest.

 

[Nathan LaMontagne]

Above like 20 or so, Yes.

 

[LEWIS540]

This stuff is so arbitrary if we’re being honest.

Utter bollocks.

A girl who is only 17 years and 364 days old is not capable of making such a decision.

 

[DoomPatrol]

This is a bit tricky. I think intent matters and in my book your desire for the 17 yr old (even tho you show restraint) is just as blameworthy as doing the actual deed with her.

What you guys think?

I think if you're a grown man flirting with that line it's already a problem.

I'm in my early thirties and honestly I feel creepy even talking to women under 25.

 

[shunyata]

Uh, you don't think it kind of depends on how old the guy is? It's the opposite of creepy if an 18 year old dude is waiting for his gf to turn 18 to have sex.

Yeah, fairly normal at 18-19 years old.

Super creepy at 50.