I sense some serious issues my friend...you were most likely beaten up bad as a kid, cause you were a scrawny little shit...so you look down upon guys that are the opposite...most bodybuilders i know, would murder any normal dude in a fight...of course a trained fighter would beat them...i'm talking normal guys..one guy being jacked, will always have the advantage...size, power and strength....will always beat a smaller man..if skills are equal...
what about guys who play football all their life...many would call that stupid..or hockey, or golf or baseball....i'm not necessarily talking about pro bodybuilders....you think arnold had trouble getting women? you don't think the rock could pretty much get any woman he wanted?...if he wasn't already married....he could get any 22 year old he wanted...if he chose to...and im not sure what bodybuilders you've actually been around, but the vast majority of them are not gay...