In the early stages of dating, do you worry she may be no good in the sack?

I agree with this guy. It sounds like the TS just wants to have sex like pornstars do instead of how real people do.

Real people don't have sex like pornstars?

Sounds like you've been hanging with the wrong women, brother:icon_lol:
 
Women just don't do very well when they're in charge. I still have to tell them how to do things properly. I'm talking hookups though.. If your in a relationship, you should know what to expect. If it's still not very good at that point, get out.
 
Hopefully what does it for me, also does it for them as well....that's what I meant.

making a quick judgement from what you've written thus far, and the question you asked in the original OP.. it doesn't seem very likely that what does it for, does it for the ladies.
 
Women just don't do very well when they're in charge. I still have to tell them how to do things properly. I'm talking hookups though.. If your in a relationship, you should know what to expect. If it's still not very good at that point, get out.

did you just learn how to have sex in real life?
because it sounds like you're projecting all the porn that you've watched onto you partner?

and the "women just don't do very well when they're in charge" line.. I don't even know what to say to that.
 
Real people don't have sex like pornstars?

Sounds like you've been hanging with the wrong women, brother:icon_lol:

I just mean that in porn, what the actors are doing isn't because it's what feels the best, it's what looks the best to the camera. i.e. pounding away mercilessly
 
maybe it's you who is 'not good' in the sack.

if a girl is uncomfortable with you in any way, she'll pull the 'dead fish' card, or the 'doesn't like doggy style' card just to get you away from her.

if you're a good lover, and are able to demonstrate that, she'll be putty in your hands.

True.

What I don`t get is why so many get in relationships with men who can`t please them because their bio clock is ticking to start a family, it`s almost guaranteed to end in divorce down the line. Ppl are pretty intuitive, the guys gonna figure it out eventually then bam divorce.

If the dude has anything going for him at all, he`ll be able to remarry someone younger and more attractive. The girl on the otherhand used up and past her expiration date will most likely die a lonely old maid with 10 cats.
 
making a quick judgement from what you've written thus far, and the question you asked in the original OP.. it doesn't seem very likely that what does it for, does it for the ladies.

I never said all ladies don't do it for me in the sack, some do some don't. My ex was amazing.....we were perfect for each other on a sexual level.
 
No because with a lot of girls get better as the relationship goes on. Also it only takes about a week to get the pussy now adays.

the sex with my current girl was ok when we first started, and now its amazing.
 
Women just don't do very well when they're in charge. I still have to tell them how to do things properly. I'm talking hookups though.. If your in a relationship, you should know what to expect. If it's still not very good at that point, get out.

Most woman are really shy during the first hookup, I never let a girl take control if its the first time we are fucking. My job is to make sure she is pleased.
I just mean that in porn, what the actors are doing isn't because it's what feels the best, it's what looks the best to the camera. i.e. pounding away mercilessly

porn is so fake,

all girls like to be fucked different, some like a lot of in and out penetration, some like when you are deep in them and grind inside them. some girls don't like deep penetration.
 
did you just learn how to have sex in real life?
because it sounds like you're projecting all the porn that you've watched onto you partner?

and the "women just don't do very well when they're in charge" line.. I don't even know what to say to that.

i'm with you. sometimes i enjoyed laying back and letting my wife do her thing. it gave me a great view and also allowed me to relax.
 
It was my primary concern when I was dating.

how i dont understand how men go out with women who won't go down on them.

they have to either do one of the following:

1) be okay with going down on me
2)anal

preferably both though.

i also hear stories about some women who dont like their tops off when they have sex, that wouldnt fly with me
 
did you just learn how to have sex in real life?
because it sounds like you're projecting all the porn that you've watched onto you partner?

and the "women just don't do very well when they're in charge" line.. I don't even know what to say to that.


You a chick?
 
how i dont understand how men go out with women who won't go down on them.

they have to either do one of the following:

1) be okay with going down on me
2)anal

preferably both though.

i also hear stories about some women who dont like their tops off when they have sex, that wouldnt fly with me

there's definitely some issues at work there.
 
as long as she get can wet, what does it matter
 
No...if she isn't good in the sack...I just move on...

What I am more concerned about is if she isn't a man.
 
No, I don't worry. What am I going to do about it, even if she's terrible? I won't know until afterward.

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i know what i want and how to get things there.


her experience or talent is largely irrelevant.
 
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