In the early stages of dating, do you worry she may be no good in the sack?

maybe it's you who is 'not good' in the sack.

if a girl is uncomfortable with you in any way, she'll pull the 'dead fish' card, or the 'doesn't like doggy style' card just to get you away from her.

if you're a good lover, and are able to demonstrate that, she'll be putty in your hands.
 
Cptn1NSAN0 said:
I apologize for my remark. Just having a rough couple of minutes here, my (former) friend has finally contacted me and informed me that I am a pile of shit
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The guy is a hippy right? I'm sure he thinks everyone is a pile of shit.
 
philth said:
maybe it's you who is 'not good' in the sack.

if a girl is uncomfortable with you in any way, she'll pull the 'dead fish' card, or the 'doesn't like doggy style' card just to get you away from her.

if you're a good lover, and are able to demonstrate that, she'll be putty in your hands.
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Nonsense.....

Girls are different in the sack and a guy only has so much power. Youre saying any girl could be good if you know what you're doing and that's BS...some girls are freakier, hornier and less inhibited.
 
mommas homeboy said:
I'm totally serious....unless you already know her through somebody or have heard things about her, there's no way to tell how she'll be.

How concerned are you that some girl you're dating but haven't done anything with may be a total dud in the sack?

Maybe some guys don't care but for me I'd hate having to tell I chick I've been working on that she doesn't do enough for me in the bedroom and therefore it's got to end. Call me an A-hole but sexual chemistry is very important to me:)
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It's a good sign if she gives up her backdoor on your first date.
 
Ofcourse not. It's like we're taking each other for a test ride before we buy.

Plus, if you really like the girl you can work on it.
 
mommas homeboy said:
Nonsense.....

Girls are different in the sack and a guy only has so much power.
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so having sex is about just you right? because that's how you're coming off in this thread.
maybe if you focus on HER and let HER be in charge.. not trying to 'teach' her stuff along the way (that she probably already knows, but just doesn't feel comfortable doing those things with you).. you wouldn't be worried.

sex isn't a one way street.
you wanna pound away and be in charge as you say, you won't get anything good in return from her end.

sex is [among other things] a mental thing for women... if you're not doing it mentally for them, don't expect mind-blowing sex.
 
mommas homeboy said:
Nonsense.....

Girls are different in the sack and a guy only has so much power. Youre saying any girl could be good if you know what you're doing and that's BS...some girls are freakier, hornier and less inhibited.
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maybe you're not doing enough foreplay, or doing enough things to get her really hot. another possibility is that she has intimacy issues, but that's delving too deep.
 
philth said:
so having sex is about just you right? because that's how you're coming off in this thread.
maybe if you focus on HER and let HER be in charge.. not trying to 'teach' her stuff along the way (that she probably already knows, but just doesn't feel comfortable doing those things with you).. you wouldn't be worried.

sex isn't a one way street.
you wanna pound away and be in charge as you say, you won't get anything good in return from her end.
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I agree with this guy. It sounds like the TS just wants to have sex like pornstars do instead of how real people do.
 
philth said:
so having sex is about just you right? because that's how you're coming off in this thread.
maybe if you focus on HER and let HER be in charge.. not trying to 'teach' her stuff along the way (that she probably already knows, but just doesn't feel comfortable doing those things with you).. you wouldn't be worried.

sex isn't a one way street.
you wanna pound away and be in charge as you say, you won't get anything good in return from her end.

sex is [among other things] a mental thing for women... if you're not doing it mentally for them, don't expect mind-blowing sex.
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"good in the sack" is a subjective term....maybe I should have said "connect with on a sexual level".

Hopefully what does it for me, also does it for them as well....that's what I meant.
 
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