the problem man, is you sound kinda shallow. maybe you should try loving the person on the inside a little bit.
Are you kidding me? The girl is a classic example of hypergamy. Looks used to acquire resources and dude with social status. It is kind of funny right. Cause the everyday average guy needs absurd resources to acquire said female. Said female would just sleep with the so called bad boy. Beta bucks and alpha fucks.
Of course you want them to be happy, even if it didn't end well. My point was that you are grouped with the guys your chick dates either before or after you. You might be a much better man or even much worse, but she considers you at least close in class to the others. Would you rather be grouped with airline pilots and wealthy jet-setters, or some lazy unemployed bum?
I don't understand this rational. I get kick out of seeing girls from the past being single mothers and having hit the wall. I find it comical to have known this is where someone is headed and then it manifests. Funny man Russell Brand says, "the future is now but only later." Essentially, behavior now has consequences and you can see a sequence of events that will lead to many unpleasant outcomes.
With respect to resources, if a dude is alpha as fuck and is out banging tons of girls, women know he is not the keeper but, they still fuck said male. Better LTR and provider is placed on the backburner. She knows Captain Save A Hoe beta male will be waiting for when she is done riding the carousel. Seriously, a lot of guys have no spine. The same with cheating. People try to equate cheating as one and the same for the genders. Again, not real life. There is no chance a woman can get cucked. And yet, there are a parade of men with really low testosterone getting cucked and or raising the alpha's children with his resources along with a woman that prior to having children out of wedlock never would have spared the dude the time a day.
Why would her diet help split you up?
Looks wise, there have been 2 ex-gfs that i'm still astonished were my partners in the past. I'm presuming we are talking about looks? Not out of one's league because they were super-intelligent or something?
I am not sure why the diet would split someone. With respect to looks, this is typically one of the things women bring to the table since, 99% of women base their sense of self value on their looks. Hence the obsession with selfies, with social media, and clinging to male validation by any means necessary. With dudes, there is a exchange of resources, the looks card, aesthetics, good job, MBA, Investment banker, lifestyle, funny dude can generate laughs and good emotions, charm, guy that can persuade a woman into anything, game etc. A dude can bring that to the table.
During peak SMV, what a woman seeks vs. what a woman seeks on the tail end of her SMV are entirely different. Being spoiled for choice is a game changer. And yet, you can still come across women late 20s, party girl, blackout drunk every weekend, sleeping around with random dudes in some chit job. Classic example I can find are waitresses and bartenders. Usually the absolute biggest sloots possible. Ton of baggage and lots of drama and yet, not opposed in the short term assuming her level of crazy doesn't exceed her sex appeal.