I'm scared $#itless. Please provide your support.

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  1. AimedWithV

    AimedWithV Wound in the Force

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    We're expecting the second one.
    Another boy.
    The big one is 1 year and 10 months.
    He's the most amazing human being on Earth, it's undisputed, I'm totally objective, that's scientifically proven fact.

    1. I do a lot of hours at work. How will I be able to spend my fucking time on a family that got even bigger? It wasn't like that with the first one, he got much more attention from me since day 0 and his first word was "dad" (on my language).
    2. How the fuck will I be able to love the second son as I do the first? How is it even possible?

    /rant.

    Please advise.
    Best regards,
     
  2. bushman505

    bushman505 Double Yellow Card Double Yellow Card

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    Wear a rubber next time ore you’re going to end up like Steven universe.
     
  3. Midnighter

    Midnighter Silver Belt

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    You'll figure it out, you don't have any other choice.
     
  4. AimedWithV

    AimedWithV Wound in the Force

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    Give me clues, man.
     
  5. Clippys Mom

    Clippys Mom Brown Belt Banned

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    Sounds to me like you will be just fine. Just by the way you talk about your son tells me you're the kind of dad that 90% of Sherdoggers never had.
     
  6. rocketskates

    rocketskates Black Belt

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    I think this is common because I felt the exact same way prior to having my second one. Honestly, as soon as you lay eyes on him you’ll love him just as much as your first and the other stuff you will figure out. It’s parenting. Not easy by any means, but, you make it work and it makes you a better person. Best of luck.
     
  7. AimedWithV

    AimedWithV Wound in the Force

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    Well, my wife and my son agree with you. :)
    But I don't have any brothers and sisters, I grew the only son. I got full attention and that's what I'm giving now. Maybe I should change something? Dauym
     
  8. Midnighter

    Midnighter Silver Belt

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    Rob a bank.

    Move to Thailand.
     
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  9. AimedWithV

    AimedWithV Wound in the Force

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    Thanks, man. I know that probably I'll have an immediate switch...I just hope not to fuck up anything...so that no one will feel bad. Neither of them two.
     
  10. AimedWithV

    AimedWithV Wound in the Force

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    Yikes, Thailand.
     
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  11. Clippys Mom

    Clippys Mom Brown Belt Banned

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    Dude no<Huh2>....I said in "before" abortion...has the world gone mad? I don't even like abortions, let alone support them in most instances. #dadsfordads
     
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  12. SmilinDesperado

    SmilinDesperado Silver Belt

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    Make them fight to the death.
    The winner will receive your love and attention, and will be your rightful heir
     
  13. AimedWithV

    AimedWithV Wound in the Force

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    I'm joking man :)
    One girl made an abortion from me once...because the morning after pill didn't work...and it was a one-night stand.
    After that she freaked out, was talking about a potential baby that could've been "beautiful like us" and wanted us to have a relationship...
    That was a traumatic experience for 24 year old party boy who wanted to have fun in life...
     
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  14. Merlotte's

    Merlotte's Silver Belt

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    Kids are so close in age the older bro is going to have little siblings back at every turn.
     
  15. AimedWithV

    AimedWithV Wound in the Force

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    Yesssss it's also totally his character.
    He is such a kind boy and cares about others and his environment.
     
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  16. Jack Reacheround

    Jack Reacheround Never Go Black

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    Wouldn’t it just be easier to have created a thread titled “I’m having another baby and want to brag about it”?

    Congratulations, though I don’t know why anyone wants to have kids.
     
  17. AimedWithV

    AimedWithV Wound in the Force

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    Maybe you should ask your mommy and daddy...or they didn't want either?
     
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  18. Clippys Mom

    Clippys Mom Brown Belt Banned

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    I myself was tricked and trapped by a woman who got herself pregnant with my child. My first response was to try to convince her that we could not have a child together considering we were both incompatible and financially distressed. She had the child anyway, and I am now a single father of two beautiful children. I shudder at the idea that I wanted to abort my son. And as hell born as my daughter was, and still is, I miss her even when I go to work. I'm able to find time to love both my children to pieces even though I have no financial, or caregiving support from the mother. Worry not, you will find the time. When it comes to love, you'll make it. And they will know it.
     
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  19. AimedWithV

    AimedWithV Wound in the Force

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    Mannnnnn what a helluva story.
    So a daughter is from a wife? And you do see your son and visit him ofren?
     
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  20. A.A. Riggs

    A.A. Riggs try that on Trish

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    You're gonna have to pick one else they'll only conspire towards your inevitably fatal hubris. Or worse, call you increasingly shitty names behind your back like some sucka ass daddy.
     
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