^ fucking this.
I didn't truly get my shit together until 35.
Was in a relationship at 26 to what I discovered was a whore of a woman. Married at 32, divorced at 33. Spent two years being a piece of shit with the money I made off our house sale and then met THE woman.
Been on the up-and-up ever since. We now have a 4yr old daughter who brightens my day and is funny as hell, a work-in-progress house, 4 chickens, a dipshit dog and some fish which I'm pretty sure have less than a week to live.
33 is NOT too old to change shit amigo. Open your mind and let your guard down.
We had our daughter when I was 40 and honestly, I'm glad I waited so long to have kids. I feel grounded and capable of giving her the best life she can have. I wouldn't have been able to do that when I was younger.
That being said, I'm 5 glasses of wine deep at 2:30pm and trying to install an electronic lock on my door so .. my advice should be taken with a grain of salt...