I want to understand why men do this to themselves

[Long Dark Blues]

Watching your girl stretch out another girl via strap is pretty exhilarating, not going to lie.

But I find the poly relationahip dynamic weird as fuck.

I'm an old school lifestyler: I'm here to fuck and only to fuck. Stay your dumb-ass out of my relationship.

 

[cooks1]

I don't blame him. I'd be jealous to knowing you were watching my wife make out with her BFF while I was at home

He could have watched them making out too. They did it for him once when I was not around and apparently it was just not his cup of tea. He is an alright bloke though. I periodically joke with him about it. It's all good fun.

I have also tried to get my wife to replace her friend with a couple other ones, to no avail. Except for my 50th Birthday party, where she made out with a couple of her friends for me

Such a great wife, humoring my little perversions. She would never agree to a threesome, but I still harbor some hope that one day I can watch her and one of her friends go at it.

 

[cooks1]

Watching your girl stretch out another girl via strap is pretty exhilarating, not going to lie.

But I find the poly relationahip dynamic weird as fuck.

I'm an old school lifestyler: I'm here to fuck and only to fuck. Stay your dumb-ass out of my relationship.

Oh yeah. One time my wife and one of her friends were kind of horsing around. And my wifes friend ended up spanking my wifes ass-hard. My wife yelped out, and then they both looked at me. I was so ravenously aroused that I think I terrified both of them.

 

[cooks1]

I think it is beyond doubt at this point that the science supports that at a evolutionary level women did not evolve to be monogamous.

Evolution cannot risk a fertile, healthy woman pairing off with an infertile or otherwise damaged male, and wants her egg to have competition from the healthiest sperm.

Male sperm evolving in EVERY male to fight other present sperm, is a clear indication that as a male you did not succeed in the gene pool without having such sperm.

Your point on women's noises also makes sense. As does the fact that most women will struggle to reach their orgasm in a single sex session with a male and are often left still wanting more. And if they manage to orgasm they are lit up and at their most energized whereas most men want to just pass out and sleep. Leaving her to go roam the communal property.

Most of these adaptions would have likely formed when humans were in a far more formidable stage of our development and competing to survive as a species. Also when we tended to live more communally and in tribes.

Of course today women (and men) can override those base instincts with our intellect but most have no clue where the drivers for their desires are coming from and the link to our evolution.

Wow. That is fucking profound.

And I gotta say I like the idea of a world where more or less everyone is fucking everyone. At 50, my time as the alpha would likely have passed. But I would use my old man wisdom to keep a sharp eye out for the does that just got banged by the alpha, but were still horny. That would be my little niche. I would put my years of experience to good use. And I would thrive by providing excellent service, generating repeat business and referrals.

Doe 1: 'I love getting fucked by the Alpha so I can apex babies, but Jesus, he sure leaves a chick wanting'

Doe 2: 'Go see Cooks1, he'll finish you off'

 

[Nate banged my mom]

Always white guys too lol

lmao you 100% right.

I suppose it’s better them committing crime tho

 

[minute bull]

lmao you 100% right.

I suppose it’s better them committing crime tho

 

[Phlog]

I think it is beyond doubt at this point that the science supports that at a evolutionary level women did not evolve to be monogamous.

Evolution cannot risk a fertile, healthy woman pairing off with an infertile or otherwise damaged male, and wants her egg to have competition from the healthiest sperm.

Male sperm evolving in EVERY male to fight other present sperm, is a clear indication that as a male you did not succeed in the gene pool without having such sperm.

Your point on women's noises also makes sense. As does the fact that most women will struggle to reach their orgasm in a single sex session with a male and are often left still wanting more. And if they manage to orgasm they are lit up and at their most energized whereas most men want to just pass out and sleep. Leaving her to go roam the communal property.

Most of these adaptions would have likely formed when humans were in a far more formidable stage of our development and competing to survive as a species. Also when we tended to live more communally and in tribes.

Of course today women (and men) can override those base instincts with our intellect but most have no clue where the drivers for their desires are coming from and the link to our evolution.

I think you're falling into a trap of thinking there is a way. In a rape situation there's a higher chance of multiple males being involved, if the society is loose and the woman is high even a loser might get a chance.

It only has to confer some benefit in some situations to be baked in as an evolutionary advantage.

But yeah, it's all in there. We are ready to go!

 

[HomeRun916]

Yup. Fucking weird how that works. I have cheated on and been cheated on but I would never let another dude bang a chick I was in a relationship with.

Some skank after a sorority party that we were eifelling tower with sure. Anything goes

Outside of a porno flick, why would a guy ever have sex with another man and a woman?

 

[minute bull]

Outside of a porno flick, why would a guy ever have sex with another man and a woman?

For sexual purposes!

Sorry. WHAT IS for sexual purposes?

 

[minute bull]

Penis.

 

[SamSchmidt]

Outside of a porno flick, why would a guy ever have sex with another man and a woman?

You never double teamed a chick? Just dont make eye contact and it's not gay

High Fives are allowed

 

[Jack Reacheround]

Theory goes that women's noises during sex is to help other men get hard ready for their turn. Basically there is a section of our evolution that involves women with multiple men. Probably because they're likely to be unsure of who the father of the child is and all offer a little support or something. For a woman that cant monopolise an alpha it's a strategy.

Only 40% approx of men in all time have had kids, so there's pretty much a whatever it takes set of behaviours in our genes.

Didn’t that evolutionary biologist say that on JRE?

 

[StrikerKing]

I think it is beyond doubt at this point that the science supports that at a evolutionary level women did not evolve to be monogamous.

Evolution cannot risk a fertile, healthy woman pairing off with an infertile or otherwise damaged male, and wants her egg to have competition from the healthiest sperm.

Male sperm evolving in EVERY male to fight other present sperm, is a clear indication that as a male you did not succeed in the gene pool without having such sperm.

Your point on women's noises also makes sense. As does the fact that most women will struggle to reach their orgasm in a single sex session with a male and are often left still wanting more. And if they manage to orgasm they are lit up and at their most energized whereas most men want to just pass out and sleep. Leaving her to go roam the communal property.

Most of these adaptions would have likely formed when humans were in a far more formidable stage of our development and competing to survive as a species. Also when we tended to live more communally and in tribes.

Of course today women (and men) can override those base instincts with our intellect but most have no clue where the drivers for their desires are coming from and the link to our evolution.

Wouldnt his apply to males just as much as women? Evolution can't afford to risk a healthy male ending up with an infertile female just as much as vice versa.

 

[Alphaboy]

He probably doesn't even identify as a "man"

 

[Zer]

Theory goes that women's noises during sex is to help other men get hard ready for their turn. Basically there is a section of our evolution that involves women with multiple men. Probably because they're likely to be unsure of who the father of the child is and all offer a little support or something. For a woman that cant monopolise an alpha it's a strategy.

Only 40% approx of men in all time have had kids, so there's pretty much a whatever it takes set of behaviours in our genes.

I'm pretty sure I read once that the bellend is designed the way it is so that it can scoop out come that's already inside the vag. And it's not like I saw this written in a bathroom stall it was a proper article from a science website

 

[Alphaboy]

Theory goes that women's noises during sex is to help other men get hard ready for their turn. Basically there is a section of our evolution that involves women with multiple men. Probably because they're likely to be unsure of who the father of the child is and all offer a little support or something. For a woman that cant monopolise an alpha it's a strategy.

Only 40% approx of men in all time have had kids, so there's pretty much a whatever it takes set of behaviours in our genes.

I think it is beyond doubt at this point that the science supports that at a evolutionary level women did not evolve to be monogamous.

Evolution cannot risk a fertile, healthy woman pairing off with an infertile or otherwise damaged male, and wants her egg to have competition from the healthiest sperm.

Male sperm evolving in EVERY male to fight other present sperm, is a clear indication that as a male you did not succeed in the gene pool without having such sperm.

Your point on women's noises also makes sense. As does the fact that most women will struggle to reach their orgasm in a single sex session with a male and are often left still wanting more. And if they manage to orgasm they are lit up and at their most energized whereas most men want to just pass out and sleep. Leaving her to go roam the communal property.

Most of these adaptions would have likely formed when humans were in a far more formidable stage of our development and competing to survive as a species. Also when we tended to live more communally and in tribes.

Of course today women (and men) can override those base instincts with our intellect but most have no clue where the drivers for their desires are coming from and the link to our evolution.

I love evolutionary biology but do not want to accept the idea that most women are whores.

It isn't like every girl is getting trains ran on them (as far as we know anyway). Besides women are hypergamous, they aren't like males who want to bang the entire cheerleading team... I think broads like in the OP are the exception.

 

[Jack Reacheround]

That picture and caption can’t be for real, right?

 

[bref]

Outside of a porno flick, why would a guy ever have sex with another man and a woman?

Sometimes the party just gets a little too out of hand and you have to spit roast a girl with a buddy. For the brotherhood.

 

[K-Bag]

 

[IloveTHIS]

I do not get this mentality. Is it some kind of mental illness?

https://pluralist.com/karalyn-henry-polyamory-wedding/

not mental illness, just insanely low self esteem. Thats probably the only girl thats ever let him put his penis inside her, and a low quality man will jump through hoops to ensure he can continue to do so.

And lets be honest, that chic is way out of his league looks wise. He knows that and really doesn't want to leave and see what he ends up stuck with next.