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I saw a dude that used to bully me as a kid - 20 odd years later

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  1. EatMyShorts

    EatMyShorts Purple Belt

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    I was hanging out in town, checking out chicks, chilling, and generally being a cool individual.

    I felt eyes on me, and looked back to see a dude I thought I knew from a long time ago.
    If it was the dude, he used to give me a nasty time when I was a kid, and not only me - everyone he could.
    He was real scummy individual which, at that age - is unusual - cause he came from a good background.

    Now - I know his father - is a desperate wanna-be badass; which is exactly what this dude was, and I suspect, still is. Like father like son, basically.
    But without any effective toughness or redeeming characteristics, he just comes across like a sleazy, ugly, nasty, aversive person.

    Well - I saw him staring at me - and I didn't recognize him immediately, but the expression on his face - that same contempt, it's like he was prepped to use an ugly insult of some kind.

    So - he walked by; he was with his woman (not hot, fat ass, bad hair job).
    I was thinking to myself - damn, I would have loved to see how that would unfold - confrontation wise.
    Cause as I kid I was super quiet.
    Now, I kick ass and take names - and not entirely co-incidentally - fuck bitches.

    Then - of all the luck, they circles around and walked by me again.

    When he's passing in front of me - I basically stare him out it.
    He honestly seemed to be trying to get a sense as to whether I was vulnerable like I used to be at a much younger age, and could he get away with trying to capitalize on that in some way - which is what bully's do.

    So I stare him the fuck out of it.

    I can clearly see him begin to cower, and increases his pace, to pass me quicker.
    So I whistle at him - upon which time his disposition becomes distinctly meek; the kind of disposition someone takes on, when they want to pacify someone emotionally - to avoid a beat down, basically.

    Which worked cause - his presentation of vulnerability, I realized; I mean, if he was being a dick, or in any way confrontational - I could have acted on it.
    But - because he was so passive and meek and basically, like a bitch - frankly - I just let him scamper off.


    You wouldn't believe some of the shit this guy pulled at a younger age.
    One dude - every day on the bus home - this motherfucker used to abuse him verbally so bad - it was a rarity his victim didn't get off the bus in tears.

    Well - that victim, maybe 6 or 7 years after that - he committed suicide.

    Another dude I was close with - often left him in tears also.

    Just a real dirt box.

    So now?
    What then.....

    I guess - if I see him again - just make sure he maintains that bitch demeanor - kind of to contradict his inner notion of him being a bad ass?

    Either that or - next time I see him, provided he's with his woman - I'll call her a fat bitch, and hopefully that can spark a confrontation, during which time I can heel hook this corksoaker to bolivia.
     
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  2. mooseman17

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    Was he a hillbilly?
     
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  3. A.A. Riggs

    A.A. Riggs human development what?!

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    Twenty years later and he's still a kid? Were you bullied by Benjamin Buttons?
     
  4. EatMyShorts

    EatMyShorts Purple Belt

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    He's the built-up-housing-estate incarnation of a hillbilly.
     
  5. EatMyShorts

    EatMyShorts Purple Belt

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    It's funny how some things don't change.

    You'd think maturity might have made a difference.
    But nuh.
     
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  6. looktwice

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    You care way too much about this guy. I think you love him.
     
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  7. mooseman17

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    Next time, if you see this guy again, don’t even give him a chance to walk by you, just heel hook him.
     
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  8. smooth assassin

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    Stories about bullied kids killing themselves is fucking depressing
     
  9. EatMyShorts

    EatMyShorts Purple Belt

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    It's funny you should say that cause - I was watching this documentary about a week ago, and apparently, the most devastating act one man can do to another, is "love" him - film it, and potentially circulate it.

    At least - that's what happened in the documentary.
     
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  10. Mike

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    Jab, followed by the overhand imo
     
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  11. Mike

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  12. A.A. Riggs

    A.A. Riggs human development what?!

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    That's no documentary.....
     
  13. EatMyShorts

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    Well, basically - I'm not sure the contents of such an explanation would be suitable for mayberry.

    But - it happens in prison all the time.

    That should give a good idea.
     
  14. Fedorgasm

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    I was a bully in school.

    I came from a broken and abusive household and at that age I just had so much hatred and contempt for other kids. Especially the ones that seemed to have good happy lives.

    Of course I didn't understand that all that at the time. All I knew back then was that I had to hurt people.

    Well since I've matured and started to understand my own issues I felt terrible about all the kids I bullied. I was able to track down many of them on social media to apologize.

    My point is that you shouldn't go assuming this guy is the same as he was in school. I mean he already has a fat wife so his life is worse than yours. You won.

    In fact, you think he's acting afraid, but in reality he might be terribly ashamed and that is why he didn't want to make eye contact. People mature bro.
     
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  15. EatMyShorts

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    You know - that sounds real nice.
    I wanna believe that.

    But that shit ain't how it is, not in this situation.

    His immediate response to me - was completely telling.

    Maturity should matter, right?
    But deep deep down - way far down - it's obvious his feelings are similar, and if I couldn't stand up for myself - he'd act on them.

    And I can assure you, he's not ashamed.
    The opposite - being a bully, he felt empowered.
    Would still feel empowered but - not at the prospect of potentially getting his anus violated as a response.
     
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  16. k1ngjester

    k1ngjester The Comeback Platinum Member

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    So basically, rape him til he loves you...?
     
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  17. Hogey

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    Sounds like people just generally don’t like you.
     
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    Liquid Smoke Great artists steal™

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  19. Mike

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  20. Jack Reacheround

    Jack Reacheround Never Go Black

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    I bet he realized you’re the type of person who uses hyphens when you should use commas, and decided he didn’t want to catch whatever communicable disease makes a person do that by touching you.
     

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