Im a person who tries not to misthink about who i call friends, who i shared food with, because im a loyal person. This prevents me from thinking objectively obviously.
So i i used to call this guy every once and two weeks and arrange meetings so we could meet up and chill etc... because he is my friend right? And i care about him, ive known this individual for like 4-5 years, we were very close. But it was always me who calls the other to meet.
So i had suspicisions and decided not to call him to observe his next move through me.
He didnt call me for like 4-5 months and recently i posted my muay thai graduation through my instagram story he responded with a clap emoji and i responded back with a smile emoji. He asked if this is kickboxing or muay thai, i said muay thai.
(We were once training partners in a different sport, not martial arts but he wasnt really ambitious unlike me and stopped doing that while i started martial arts, he is kind of a lazy guy who plays mobile games all the time) He told me that he stopped doing sports and told me about his desires about getting into shape etc... i said cool, it will be good for you. He liked my message a conversation ended there.
I believe he wanted me to be more friendly and ask him lets meet up, but i didnt.
What do you guys think about this person, and why he behaved me like this, and where should i put this guy in my life? He was a close friend of mine but i dont know if he sees me as i see him.
