I fugged up

People will change but the Word of God doesn’t.

... Which of the many, many versions of the word of god hasnt changed? and which god?

There are way too many versions of the word of god for this statement to make any sense.

but, good work and good luck to anyone pursuing sobriety!
 
... Which of the many, many versions of the word of god hasnt changed? and which god?

There are way too many versions of the word of god for this statement to make any sense.

but, good work and good luck to anyone pursuing sobriety!

I was just trying to give him some encouragement boss

Believe or don’t believe what you want
 
This. If you actually want to get sober, it's easy. The problem is most addicts don't really want to.
Speaking through experience? How long ago did you quit? How much were you drinking a day and for how long?

I quit smoking after 30 years and a big wake up call. I didn't want to quit because I enjoyed it but thankful I did, life is much easier.

All the best, @IloveTHIS. Maybe you might find happiness in the cultiness, who knows? Head from Korn swapped meth for Jesus and he's been sober for like 20 years.
 
You gotta get angry to quit anything. Pissed at yourself for wasting time and money and health and relationships for that nonsense escape. This goes for any vice imo.

It wasn't until I got angry at the idea of smoking that I was able to overcome it. Any excuse or semblance of still enjoying it and you're up against a big wall....

Good luck Sherbro.
 
You gotta get angry to quit anything. Pissed at yourself for wasting time and money and health and relationships for that nonsense escape. This goes for any vice imo.

It wasn't until I got angry at the idea of smoking that I was able to overcome it. Any excuse or semblance of still enjoying it and you're up against a big wall....

Good luck Sherbro.
It isn't that cookie cutter. I loved smoking. Husband's dad and brother died of smoking related Cancer so when I got breast cancer it was a bit of a wake up being if I popped my clogs he'd lose a 3rd loved one that could have been prevented. All through flying back and forth to the UK to look after my dying mother who had brain Cancer and step dad I carried on smoking 20 a day but when the realisation hits as to how damn selfish it is to our loved ones is when I stopped. I've had 3 cigs since for varying reasons but knew it wasn't a forever thing again and it was years ago.
 
It isn't that cookie cutter. I loved smoking. Husband's dad and brother died of smoking related Cancer so when I got breast cancer it was a bit of a wake up being if I popped my clogs he'd lose a 3rd loved one that could have been prevented. All through flying back and forth to the UK to look after my dying mother who had brain Cancer and step dad I carried on smoking 20 a day but when the realisation hits as to how damn selfish it is to our loved ones is when I stopped. I've had 3 cigs since for varying reasons but knew it wasn't a forever thing again and it was years ago.
I'm simply saying that if you're at a place where you are rationalizing it at all, it's going to be a tough fight. Quitting for empathetic reasons over self determination is likely ever harder!
 
I'm simply saying that if you're at a place where you are rationalizing it at all, it's going to be a tough fight. Quitting for empathetic reasons over self determination is likely ever harder!
Did you cold turkey? Before the brother in law and mum stuff I managed 2 months with patches but ended up such a thunder c word husband bought me a pack and it all kicked off again.
 
Did you cold turkey? Before the brother in law and mum stuff I managed 2 months with patches but ended up such a thunder c word husband bought me a pack and it all kicked off again.
Another thread another me, me, me, i, i, i. Dont you get tired of yourself? Because i am.
 
Did you cold turkey? Before the brother in law and mum stuff I managed 2 months with patches but ended up such a thunder c word husband bought me a pack and it all kicked off again.
No i used patches and a nicotine inhaler to get over that 3 month hurdle, and then weened off them and never looked back. Been about 5 years now. Can't remember having a craving at all. Couple of children will put a lot of things in clearer perspective, which had me pretty upset with myself. Wish I'd never started obviously (hello 17 year old self) but it's been a great change for the health and pocket book since quitting. Highly recommended lol!
 
No i used patches and a nicotine inhaler to get over that 3 month hurdle, and then weened off them and never looked back. Been about 5 years now. Can't remember having a craving at all. Couple of children will put a lot of things in clearer perspective, which had me pretty upset with myself. Wish I'd never started obviously (hello 17 year old self) but it's been a great change for the health and pocket book since quitting. Highly recommended lol!
You're all the better for it, so congratulations. I think my last one I pinched off a woman at Heathrow before checking in after an incredibly tumultuous trip. I kinda get the craving in a sense of if something went badly or well my reaction was to go outside and smoke but don't get the physical need. I think it would burn my lungs.
 
Another thread another me, me, me, i, i, i. Dont you get tired of yourself? Because i am.
Mate, how many threads are you going to stalk me in? Block me. Far easier than your menstrual whining.
 
Best time to start hitting the gym
I used to be quite the specimen in my prime until a motorcycle wreck left me with superficial and non superficial injuries to one of my forearms so I cant work out like I would love to and sadly Im an all or nothing person. If I cant be the greek god I used to be, fuck it all together.

I was into long distance running for a while but that left me with a pinched nerve in my back and I couldnt feel or move anything bellow one of my knees for like 6-8 months.

really my entire life stems back to that accident. if not for that I'd probably be an amateur bodybuilder/personal trainer that refused to even have a single beer in a year due to diminished gainz. or Id still be an addict and just to steroids and have died from that.
 
You can always replace drinking sugar with eating it. Cookies, cake, candy. Scans of the brain on sugar and cocaine are pretty similar.
 
This. If you actually want to get sober, it's easy. The problem is most addicts don't really want to.

I disagree with this line of thinking.

You can want to quit, but that feeling can waver, days or weeks in, the little voice in your head returns and relentlessly pounds away and that is when the relapse happens.

TS needs to do a a way to keep that voice away and make his sobriety permanently sustainable.
 
I was a pretty heavy alcoholic when I was stationed in S.Korea, for about 6 months.

Layers of problems with my upbringing, former relationships, and military life.

Began drinking, kept drinking, just like dozen other soldiers in my barracks, and roughly half of my very limited income was going to alcohol.

Woke up on Sunday evening after downing a fraction of a bottle of TylenolPM 18 hours before ... probably in my drunken state I was hoping it was the bottle next to it on my sink of prescribed pills that absolutely would have killed me.

After that, I completely quit drinking with the exception of a two-drink maximum only in social occasions.
No AA.
No hypnotherapy.
Nothing at all.
Went completely cold turkey for many years before I trusted myself to take any kind of alcohol.
After 6 months in Korea, I was done in from drinking. Just a young kid in a far away place with too many opportunities to mess up.
 
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