I think he means that if he insulted you in a different thread, it was just words, dude. The #1 problem with new posters in OT is that they take the insults to seriously... chill out.
You obviously didnt detect the sarcasm from this post because if you "knew" what I meant by it you wouldnt have made youre self look like a dumbass just now.
you cant tell a baby the fire is hot, he just has to touch it for himself friend. no since trying to help the helpless brother