I am a week at home now after surgery doing nothing. Reha will start soon, my doc told me to slow down a lil bit because the wound hasn't healed yet.
The incision wounds suck, especially when it is uncovered and you brush it up against something. Or... hit it against the coffee table (SON OF A BITCH!!).
I learned one thing in this week. Being bored is one of the most fucked up feelings you can imagine... ;-)
I am just surfing the net, my girlfriend is asking me all the time "are you ok? you hungry? want something to drink?"
Yeah, I really appreciate that she's so nice doing everything for me and supporting me, but the only thing I want is to train BJJ. All the vids I watched online, Anderson's epic win against Sonnen, all this stuff drives me crazy. I want to train so bad and learn new techniques and improve my game.
This is going to sound VERY trite and patronizing but please don't take it that way.
Try to find a hobby unrelated to BJJ.
I know, I know. With the end goal being able to roll again, it is hard to focus on anything else. But for your (and your girlfriend's) sanity, find something that:
1) Gets you out of the house
2) Lets you hang out somewhere and do something relaxing
Mine was going to paint pottery. I AM NOT SHITTING YOU. People can give me all the shit they want (I've already had to give up 2 man-cards for this), but I could give a damn. It helped me get through the recovery easier and was mentally relaxing.
I painted some BJJ-related stuff on those mugs and bowls (logos in particular). I sucked at first, but got OK after a few visits. Mentally, it was great to be doing something different, passing time, and being creative.
But, anything that gets you out and doing something different will probably help you and your girlfriend.
If somebody's never been laid up for an extended period of time (more than 4 weeks), they won't know what people will resort to stay sane. You might find something you never knew you would like before.