How often do happy couples have sex? Less than you think.

Clear Winner said:
I'm talking about the logistics, bro. It's more difficult because they're up at 6am, so that rules out the chance of morning sex. It also rules out spontaneous sex whenever the kids are awake because you shouldn't be leaving a 1 year old aake and unattended.

I didn't say it was impossible it certainly isn't, but I don't know 1 person in a loyal relationship that is having more sex after they've had kids and almost all are having it less. The people I know who have the same amount were the once a fortnight type before anyway.
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Women like it anywhere
 
I like to do it at least 3-4 times a week. Currently because of our works schedule's we do it about 1-2 times a week. When we both worked normal 9-5 jobs it was easily 5 times a week.

I knew a guy who only fucked his wife about once a week. I told him he was fucking weird. His wife was pretty hot and he was short and fat I didn't get it he should be fucking her nonstop. Well one day he starts working out again and about 2 weeks later it was like Thursday and he told me he fucked his wife every day that week. Made me realize how important it is to stay in shape.
 
If you edit the “less than you think” with “less than you imply or brag about on sherdog” then you might have a point.
 
I'm married so I get it anytime. Anytime she wants :p
 
Cantalope said:
I'm married so I get it anytime. Anytime she wants :p
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That's gotta go both ways. If a woman denies me without medical reason, I'm going to cheat and we have nothing. I don't play that. Too many American (white, tbh) play that, and it's sick.
 
Amerikuracana said:
That's gotta go both ways. If a woman denies me without medical reason, I'm going to cheat and we have nothing. I don't play that. Too many American (white, tbh) play that, and it's sick.
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I was just being silly. My wife and I still have a good sex life even after all these years.
 
Id have it every day if I could, but between heavily conflicting work schedules (she is a nurse and works on a lean project committee), both of us back in school full time, raising my 7yo son and other misc factors, once a week is about as good as it gets... albeit not remotely my optimal frequency.
 
Striderxdj said:
Id have it every day if I could, but between heavily conflicting work schedules (she is a nurse and works on a lean project committee), both of us back in school full time, raising my 7yo son and other misc factors, once a week is about as good as it gets... albeit not remotely my optimal frequency.
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Do it more.
 
Well if you're not a selfish lover, good sex is not always easy to pull off.

I don't want to just bang out my gf as fast as I can, only caring about what I get from it.
I can't enjoy myself unless she's enjoying it even more, and that takes time, attention and skill.

Poking your Weiner through your boxers for 2 minute sex 5 times a week is not nearly as fulfilling as a slow, passionate and freaky hour long session once a week.
 
Amerikuracana said:
Do it more.
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You seem to be assuming that Im in control of frequency, and strangely; also think that we wouldnt be having it more already if I was in control.

Nurses work 12 hour shifts. She generally works staffing 2-3 times a week. She has to be at work at 6am, so she goes to bed early the nights before, so Im sol those nights. She doesnt get home until around 730-900pm, and a day of taking care of sick kids doesnt lead to her wanting to f**k, either, its generally beer/food/bed, so those nights im also sol.

Shes in an accelerated masters program, so days off are generally spent doing papers/studying, these days I have a chance, but generally only come up once or twice a week at most. These are also days where errands/chores/schoolwork/etc. take up a good portion of my time as well.

The days where she is working on projects are usually followed by a day in staffing too, when you take everything into account the window of opportunity is small.
 
Happily married folk and the amount of sex they have will vary but on average I would say once a week is pretty accurate.

Unhappy married folk or those just co-existing and staying married 'for the kids', which is a lot, have sex very little. For some it is literally just on birthdays or anniversaries when they feel they need to make effort. I was shocked to hear from 3 of my married friends at our recent guys 50th reunion long weekend that 3 of them, most of consider to have good marriages have no sex whatsoever and have not for years. I was shocked at how easy they talked about it. But then I have a neighbours here in Edmonton and the wife loves telling others, as soon as she has had a few drinks that her and husband have not had sex for over 6 years.
 
MikeMcMann said:
Happily married folk and the amount of sex they have will vary but on average I would say once a week is pretty accurate.

Unhappy married folk or those just co-existing and staying married 'for the kids', which is a lot, have sex very little. For some it is literally just on birthdays or anniversaries when they feel they need to make effort. I was shocked to hear from 3 of my married friends at our recent guys 50th reunion long weekend that 3 of them, most of consider to have good marriages have no sex whatsoever and have not for years. I was shocked at how easy they talked about it. But then I have a neighbours here in Edmonton and the wife loves telling others, as soon as she has had a few drinks that her and husband have not had sex for over 6 years.
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This is the most depressing thing I have ever read.
 
I think it really depends on the couples household. Once per week would be ideally minimally, which can be a challenge for many dual working couples that have young kids, especially when they end up in your bed every night. My close friend has a 4 year old that has been sleeping with them in bed pretty much since birth. They have a small 1 bedroom apartment. I remember when we had a guys trip last year and he asked me if I ever thought about cheating on my wife. Sex was seldom with him working 50-60+ hours per week ,his wife working part-time while going to nursing school and a toddler/preschooler sleeping with them in a queen size bed every night. Compare that to when they both lived by themselves with no kids. Pornhub unfortunately must have been his best friend.
 
For our busy lifestyle with young kids about once per week is a realistic number. Ideally 2-3 times per week with your ocassional higher frequency binge. Too frequent and you start replacing quantity with quality. I rather eat at a nice restaurant a few times per week then hitting up hometown buffet on the daily.
 
I am married. We used to have sex 3 times a day. Then Once a day. Now once to four times a week. I jack off every night I suspect I wont get laid just to help me go to sleep and out of habit. I am 38 years old.
 
MikeMcMann said:
Happily married folk and the amount of sex they have will vary but on average I would say once a week is pretty accurate.

Unhappy married folk or those just co-existing and staying married 'for the kids', which is a lot, have sex very little. For some it is literally just on birthdays or anniversaries when they feel they need to make effort. I was shocked to hear from 3 of my married friends at our recent guys 50th reunion long weekend that 3 of them, most of consider to have good marriages have no sex whatsoever and have not for years. I was shocked at how easy they talked about it. But then I have a neighbours here in Edmonton and the wife loves telling others, as soon as she has had a few drinks that her and husband have not had sex for over 6 years.
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If my wife didnt fuck me for 3 months, Id probably already have eyes on a side piece or start packing up my stuff in secret... let alone 6 months... or 6 years. That is so beyond pathetic its unfathomable and I dont care how many kids you had and are waiting to leave... *uck that.
 
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Married for 10 and we do it about 2x a week. Now if my "T" levels are high then it can get a bit crazy.
 
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