How many ex’s at one time have you had to deal with?

[fingercuffs]

Yeah I'm not looking forward to spending the winter possibly alone but I also don't want to waste her time. She's 39 and has baby fever and I just can't see myself planning that out. If it happened by accident, I'd have a kid but with the pandemic and it's effects on my financial security, I can't think about it.

Yikes! Hopefully you guys will be good by then or at least civil.

You did the decent thing nipping it in the bud, bud. Unless you have all the money in the bank to pay for a kid for 18 years or a guaranteed income it's not a great idea right now, especially if it's a new relationship. A couple I know, she got pregnant before it all got really serious Covid wise. She was a bar tender, he owned a gym. Now he's been forced to close his gym and she isn't bar tending anymore because she's due to drop soon. Must be a worrying time for what should be a really nice and exciting time. At least they didn't do a gender reveal party and set thousands of acres on fire...they announced it on Facebook.

 

[dc007]

You did the decent thing nipping it in the bud, bud. Unless you have all the money in the bank to pay for a kid for 18 years or a guaranteed income it's not a great idea right now, especially if it's a new relationship. A couple I know, she got pregnant before it all got really serious Covid wise. She was a bar tender, he owned a gym. Now he's been forced to close his gym and she isn't bar tending anymore because she's due to drop soon. Must be a worrying time for what should be a really nice and exciting time. At least they didn't do a gender reveal party and set thousands of acres on fire...they announced it on Facebook.

Thanks. Yeah my business if very affected by all this Covid shit and more and more people are leaving NYC so I don't even know if I can remain open in a years time. All I can hope is the vaccine works and gets things back to normal so they'll actually want to live in the city. But if it takes too long, we are screwed here.

 

[eternaldarkness]

I wouldn’t answer the phone for her, she didn’t have a working vehicle at the time.

I had her on ignore, she sent the fucking cops to my house for a “wellness check” and instructions for me to call her.

Cop wakes me up beating on my door(this is at midnight on a work night).

I tell the cop(lady cop) I want to file a reesstainiing order and she says no

I’m like what the duck??

Well your at least half way there. Top effort.

 

[eternaldarkness]

This is honestly what I'm worried most about with one of my ex's from years past. Absolute nutcase and pathological liar. After I broke things off with her she lied about all kinds of crazy shit to get my attention: Being pregnant, threatening suicide, having a terminal illness.....she found my parents home phone number and started calling them in the middle of the night trying to find where I was living. The only ace up her sleeve that she has left is to accuse me of rape or sexual assault.

Well, I had several accusing me at the same time (not to the police though) you mustn't be trying hard enough.

 

[fingercuffs]

Thanks. Yeah my business if very affected by all this Covid shit and more and more people are leaving NYC so I don't even know if I can remain open in a years time. All I can hope is the vaccine works and gets things back to normal so they'll actually want to live in the city. But if it takes too long, we are screwed here.

Yeah, I'm quite hopeful for it. San Jose is a big city but I don't need to get on public transport or anything so I kinda understand why people are leaving, you can't drive in NYC. I'll have my fingers crossed for you.

I think I might be able to sort it out, he's gone back in the other room again but he did come and have a quick chat and a bit of a laugh. He was spouting venom earlier.

Aside from missing him, it's going to be a logistical nightmare breaking up and unless I go on the game I'm not going to be able to afford Silicon Valley prices for much longer without his unemployment benefits

 

[Ikuza]

Three exes. Which went better than that time I had four current gfs all talking together.

 

[dc007]

Yeah, I'm quite hopeful for it. San Jose is a big city but I don't need to get on public transport or anything so I kinda understand why people are leaving, you can't drive in NYC. I'll have my fingers crossed for you.

I think I might be able to sort it out, he's gone back in the other room again but he did come and have a quick chat and a bit of a laugh. He was spouting venom earlier.

Aside from missing him, it's going to be a logistical nightmare breaking up and unless I go on the game I'm not going to be able to afford Silicon Valley prices for much longer without his unemployment benefits

Tons of people, myself included bought cars here early on in the shutdown because we didn't want to take PT. Now with the restaurants all set up in the street, there is no parking in any restaurant heavy neighborhoods. I moved from the East Village to Brooklyn to save money and thought I'd be driving to work but it will cost me a fortune in garage fees so I take the subway.

I can't imagine what you did enough to end a 20 year relationship. I mean there's pretty much only one thing that would make me end one of that length.

And yeah, it's silly expensive to live out there. Even if you did start hooking, you'd have to stay very busy...

 

[fingercuffs]

Tons of people, myself included bought cars here early on in the shutdown because we didn't want to take PT. Now with the restaurants all set up in the street, there is no parking in any restaurant heavy neighborhoods. I moved from the East Village to Brooklyn to save money and thought I'd be driving to work but it will cost me a fortune in garage fees so I take the subway.

I can't imagine what you did enough to end a 20 year relationship. I mean there's pretty much only one thing that would make me end one of that length.

And yeah, it's silly expensive to live out there. Even if you did start hooking, you'd have to stay very busy...

Oh damn, you really are feeling the pinch. We are too, he hasn't worked since March, it's a definite worry.

I didn't know they were setting up in the street, that must be freezing! I was by a massive heater with a big hoodie on yesterday and I'm in CA.

No it wasn't that. Just been arguing for months. A lot of it because we were together 24x7 for months when neither of us were working and we said some pretty nasty things to each other which has stuck around. My hormones are flippin spastic so I fly off the handle something fierce out of nowhere. Some things, you can't take back.

 

[Hand Made]

I like when we pretend to have sex with other people.

 

[dc007]

Oh damn, you really are feeling the pinch. We are too, he hasn't worked since March, it's a definite worry.

I didn't know they were setting up in the street, that must be freezing! I was by a massive heater with a big hoodie on yesterday and I'm in CA.

No it wasn't that. Just been arguing for months. A lot of it because we were together 24x7 for months when neither of us were working and we said some pretty nasty things to each other which has stuck around. My hormones are flippin spastic so I fly off the handle something fierce out of nowhere. Some things, you can't take back.

Yeah places are using the heaters but I don't know how long people will want to sit outside in brutal New York winters and with no culture, movies, live sports, etc. There's not a lot of reason to live here right now so people will leave.

I said at the beginning of this shutdown that two things will happen as a result. A lot of babies being born and a lot of divorce. A woman took it further and said the ones under 40 will have kids and the ones over 40 will divorce.

 

[fingercuffs]

Yeah places are using the heaters but I don't know how long people will want to sit outside in brutal New York winters and with no culture, movies, live sports, etc. There's not a lot of reason to live here right now so people will leave.

I said at the beginning of this shutdown that two things will happen as a result. A lot of babies being born and a lot of divorce. A woman took it further and said the ones under 40 will have kids and the ones over 40 will divorce.

Not the last bit but I said exactly the same thing. Midwives and divorce lawyers' jobs will be safe, the divorce lawyers especially making money hand over fist. It doesn't pay much really but I feel pretty lucky to have a job considering I have a gaping hole in my resume and apart from being used to corporate stuff and how to deal with people I'm not actually very good at it sometimes

 

[dc007]

Not the last bit but I said exactly the same thing. Midwives and divorce lawyers' jobs will be safe, the divorce lawyers especially making money hand over fist. It doesn't pay much really but I feel pretty lucky to have a job considering I have a gaping hole in my resume and apart from being used to corporate stuff and how to deal with people I'm not actually very good at it sometimes

haha I really doubt that.

What does the man do?

 

[fingercuffs]

haha I really doubt that.

What does the man do?

He was a production director for a NY digital marketing agency on secondment at Apple. It was nice being flown there for a few days every year for the Christmas party, I can completely get why you aren't particularly happy right now, I imagine it's a very different place to when I was last there in December.
What about you?

 

[scorpipede]

One is my most recent ex, she jus wont leave me alone. Lots o drama. There
One is an ex from along time ago, that we’ve been on an off FWB’s for a long time. She wants more I don’t my fault but i try to stay friends and help with shit. We dont. Always bang. This is the only one I’ve banged recently.

One is an ex that popped up put of nowhere recently and I haven’t seen but sends me weird messages. Banged her friend the other night. That didn’t solve the issue like I thought it would. (They are fighting right now)

Was supposed to go out with a new chick last night. We hung out earlier in the week. Cool chick. Ex from out of the bleu needed me(sons mother, couldn’t say no) Then today lays some shit on me. Not today Satan, not today.

Kinda sounds like you keep them around and then don't like that they're still around.


Be direct and move on eh?

 

[Halifax]

How recently were you banging these 4women

When you broke up did you say let's still be friends

Are you answering when they text or call?

My wife is a behavioral specialist and tells me the number one stupid thing men tend to do is reward attention seeking behavior

Your wife must be looking on in dismay at the USA right now. particularly at Antifa and BLM<45>

 

[FyrFytr998]

When my wife and I divorced, we still hooked up despite seeing other people. It was like a game.

So one?

 

[ArtemV]

One of my exes suggested that we hook up later at some point, and continue talking - I blocked her though, what is this? It just brings more misery for both ex-partners. I cut contact as soon as we break up.

 

[aerius]

Ironically I have access to Alligators, but not a. Wood chipper currently.

Well what are you waiting for?

 

[mmafan2000]

I’m about to pull my hair out and put all these bbbitches in a room together and tell them all the same thing.

Grass is greener on the other side isn’t it?? Stay over there and leave me alone.

4 now, 4 at once.

And this shit messed up shit with a new girl I was workin on

stop ruining my life. Bitches

tl:dr 4 ex’s currently I’m dealing with fml.

Zero, I blocked them as soon as they became an ex.

 

[errol ansen]

All my ex's live in Texas.

You in Tennessee now, son?

An ex from my same circle of friends showed up to a party drunk and kept trying to buddy-buddy up with my new fling. It was really awkward for all involved except the ex, lol.

Funny now, but at the time it was just kinda sad.