How many dates is your limit for sex?

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  1. 90 50

    90 50 Red Belt

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    Bang first, if it’s good date
     
  2. Revolver

    Revolver you sound poor Staff Member Senior Moderator

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    I have to get sex first before I even consider taking them on a date.
     
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    DanMMAleague Purple Belt

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    Beggars can't be choosers ....

    Heavily depends on how the dates are going otherwise and if I think she will laugh at my performance.
     
  4. HelloJapan

    HelloJapan Talking loud and saying nothing. Platinum Member

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    HelloJapan Talking loud and saying nothing. Platinum Member

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    This is the correct answer.
     
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    syct23 ...ElipsisBelt...

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    I'm kinda like this..

    I've never really ever asked a girl out or on a date but maybe once.. usually I found ways to hangout with girls around friends or by ourselves without it even seeming like a date.. and if we ever did go on a "date" or anything close to it, we had already slept together a few times..

    I find it tends not to make things so awkward if they think we are just chilling.. this lead to multiple one night stands or a few fuck buddies that lasted years.

    Even to this day the girl I'm with now I have never even asked out, she just stuck around and I allowed it..
     
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    TeTe Troll Whisperer Staff Member Senior Moderator

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    I don't have a set number, but if the chemistry is there it shouldn't take more than about three or four dates. If the chemistry isn't there, why keep wasting the time?
     
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    Randy Trevor Hear me talkin' to you? Banned

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    hi TeTe
     
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    Renard Brown Belt

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    Having a set number is stupid. You can tell if there's mutual interest or not.
     
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    Shut your mouth!
     
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    Cint Plutonium Belt Platinum Member

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    cooks1 No matter where you go-there you are Platinum Member

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    Agreed. How much I enjoy a woman's company determines how long I will wait. A lot of things factor into a woman's timing with sex. Religion and culture, how they were raised, self esteem, and how much they have enjoyed sex in the past. Not to mention how much they may or may not like me.

    I never really got worked up about or even kept track, as I have never (not since like Jr in HS anyway) dated a girl exclusively unless I was sexually active with them. So if I was ever going out with a girl and waiting to close, then the likelihood was that i was closing elsewhere--or at least trying.
     
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  15. mushishi

    mushishi A is a, a is a, should I save her?

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    Te Huna Matata Red Belt

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    Sex isn't a good indicator but if there is no kiss by the second date, I'm not wasting any more time.
     
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    Sometimes longer sometimes shorter.

    No trend worthy of the name.
     
  18. Plutoburn

    Plutoburn Alpha booze head

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    It entirely depends on the quality of the women.

    If the girl is attractive and I actually enjoy spending time with her, it’s not hard to be patient.
     
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    Cint Plutonium Belt Platinum Member

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    This one time I met a girl vacationing in Hawaii. We met on the beach and later that evening went to her hotel. Things escalated very quickly and we were on the bed... :p
     
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    Till the Roofie you slipped her kicks in.

    <puh-lease75>
     

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